I am lonely will anyone speak to me
"i am lonely will anyone speak to me" is the title of a thread that was posted on the Internet forum of the video codec downloads site Moviecodec.com, and had become "the web's top hangout for lonely folk".[1][2] The thread began July 14, 2004; it was the first hit when the phrase "I am lonely" was entered into the Google search engine though it has since dropped.
It was featured in the magazines Wired,[2] Guardian Unlimited,[3] and The New Yorker.[4] Bjarne Lundgren, the webmaster of Moviecodec.com, has stated "Like-minded people tend to flock together and, in this case, Google helped in flocking them together on my site".[2]
Mark Griffiths, a researcher in internet psychology at Nottingham Trent University in the UK, also addressed this question, stating: "There are a lot of lonely people out there. Some people rely heavily on technology and end up treating it as an electronic friend, a sounding board—just writing it down can make you feel better... That doesn't change their psychological world at that moment, but creating a kinship with like-minded people can help. You're all in this virtual space together."[2]
Due to its large community, Bjarne created a new forum entitled "A Lonely Life",[5] for the thread's numerous lonely inhabitants to move to. The original thread is now located on Moviecodec.com's branch site, The Lounge Forums.[6]
As of December 24, 2016, the website the thread is hosted on was shut down and can no longer be accessed. A spiritual successor to the original site called Take Five Forums was formed in May 2015,[7] and is home to many of the members from The Lounge as well as a thread with the same title.[8]
See also
References
- ↑ iEntry Inc. (2005-06-22). "The Lonely Hearts Use Google As Well". Searchnewz.com. Retrieved 2010-05-29.
- 1 2 3 4 Robert Andrews (2005-06-30). "Misery Loves (Cyber) Company". Wired.com. Archived from the original on 10 January 2009. Retrieved 2010-05-29.
- ↑ Oliver Burkeman (2005-08-30). "Oliver Burkeman: Anybody there? | Technology". London: The Guardian. Retrieved 2010-05-29.
- ↑ Ratliff, Evan (2009-01-07). "The World Wide Web: Hello, Loneliness". The New Yorker. Retrieved 2010-05-29.
- ↑ "A Lonely Life Forums". alonelylife.com. Retrieved 2010-01-11.
- ↑ "i am lonely will anyone speak to me". Lounge.moviecodec.com. Retrieved 2014-07-22.
- ↑ "Take Five Forums". t5forums.com. Retrieved 2017-01-04.
- ↑ "i am lonely will anyone speak to me". t5forums.com. Retrieved 2017-01-04.
External links
- Original thread on Moviecodec's branch site, The Lounge Forums
- Moviecodec's main site
- New thread on The Lounge's spiritual successor