Mothers and Fathers Matter

Mothers and Fathers Matter
Motto Mothers and Fathers Matter
Formation 30 September 2014
Headquarters 77 Sir John Rogerson’s Quay, Dublin 2
Region served
Ireland
Chairperson
Prof. Ray Kinsella
Website MothersandFathersMatter.ie

Mothers and Fathers Matter is a civic group in Ireland which was formed in September 2014 by people including academic, Professor Ray Kinsella, who is the group's chairperson.[1] The group was set up to oppose the Children and Family Relationships Bill. The group also opposes the Thirty-fourth Amendment of the Constitution (Marriage Equality) Bill 2015.[2]

Members of the group and spokespeople for it include Dr. Tom Finegan, Keith Mills, Kate Bopp, Dr. Sam Shepard and David Quinn, of the self-styled Iona Institute pressure group.

Children and Family Relationships Bill

The group opposed the enactment of the Children and Family Relationships Bill, which amended family law in Ireland to extend parental rights and responsibilities to non-traditional families, simplified adoption rights for the spouse or civil partner of a biological parent, and for a long-term domestic partner, and also addressed donor-assisted reproduction (sperm donation and egg donation).[3] The group believed the legislation could, in some cases, deprive a child of a mother and father, and turned donor eggs into a commodity.

In February 2015 the group demonstrated outside the Dáil against the Bill,[4][5] which was approved by the Dáil on 12 March, 2015 and signed into law on 6 April 2015.[6][7] Mothers and Fathers Matter subsequently said it was planning a legal challenge to the act.[8]

2015 Marriage Referendum

The group launched its campaign against the 2015 Marriage Referendum on April 18, 2015.[9] At its launch, the group were challenged to produce research to back their claims and promised to publish any research in dispute on their website.[10][11] They have yet to do so.

Mothers and Fathers Matter hosted a conference on Saturday 25th of April, 2015, in the Marino Institute of Education with speakers advocating the retention of the current definition of marriage.[12]

Poster controversy

The 'No' posters published by Mothers and Fathers Matter were widely criticised as being an attempt to sow confusion and to conflate different issues (such as surrogacy) with the Marriage Equality Referendum. On 24 April, 2015, the Irish Times journalist, Conor Pope, filmed and confronted individuals who were removing some of the group's posters from Gardiner Street.[13] Responding, the Yes Equality campaign condemned the removal of any posters, but pointed out that their canvassers had also been abused and threatened.[14] One Dublin hotel (notorious for courting publicity) offered a discount to guests who took down 'No' posters.[15]

Some claim the 'No' posters are insulting to single parents, adoptive parents and heterosexual and same-sex parents who had availed of assisted human reproduction. One such mother said "The poster is nonsense – it implies that surrogacy is simply for same-sex couples. There are many parents, myself included, that have had children thanks to the help of other people. To say that I am not the mother of my children because I could not biologically carry them is an insulting suggestion, and one that is clearly aimed at shaming families that do not conform to this group’s narrow view of what constitutes a family.”[16][17][18] Tánaiste Joan Burton described the posters as "demeaning", saying "The notion that people who have been raised in anything other than the kind of perfect family situation that the No people describe, frankly, I find it undermining of people in a way I think is regrettable."[19]

The independent Referendum Commission has received "dozens" of complaints about the posters, and pointed to a statement on their website on the question, which reads “The Children and Family Relationships Act 2015 deals with parentage in the cases of donor–assisted births but not with surrogacy. The Act has been passed and will be enacted regardless of the outcome of the marriage equality referendum." They added "In view of the number of complaints regarding the surrogacy poster, the Commission may comment further in the coming weeks."[20] Carol Coulter, former Irish Times legal affairs editor and director of the child care law reporting project, also wrote that the referendum had nothing to do with surrogacy, and pointed out that where it was legal, such as in the UK, it was mostly availed of by heterosexual, married couples.[21]

External links

References

  1. About Us Mothers and Fathers Matter
  2. Mothers and Fathers launch No Referendum campaign Irish Times, 18 April, 2015.
  3. "Minister Shatter publishes General Scheme of Children and Family Relationships Bill for consultation". Press releases. Department of Justice and Equality. 30 January 2014. Retrieved 27 January 2015.
  4. Children & Family Relationships bill before Cabinet by Sarah McDonald, 17 February 2015.
  5. Mothers and Fathers matter protest against the Children and Family Relationship Bill www.rte.ie, March 13, 2015
  6. Children and Family Relationships Bill passes all stages in the Dáil
  7. 2015 Legislation
  8. "The Week That Was". Krank.ie. 19 April 2015. Retrieved 21 April 2015.
  9. Voters 'should recognise the role of mothers and fathers' in referendum www.breakingnews.ie
  10. Hand, Lise (18 April 2015). "Stat's all, folks - telling fact from fiction is the real referendum game". Irish Independent. Retrieved 20 April 2015.
  11. Minihan, Mary (17 April 2015). "Mothers and Fathers Matter launches No referendum campaign". Irish Times. Retrieved 20 April 2015.
  12. No-vote group alleges misleading of public on child issues Irish Times, 26 April 2015.
  13. 'Vote No' posters taken down Conor Pope, YouTube Channel
  14. "The ‘Yes’ campaign responds to accusations of pulling down ‘No’ posters". The Journal. 24 April 2015. Retrieved 26 April 2015.
  15. McGreevy, Ronan (27 April 2015). "Same-sex vote: Hotel offers 50% rate for removing ‘No’ posters". Irish Times. Retrieved 27 April 2015.
  16. Kearns, David (23 April 2015). "Families hit out over 'No' campaign poster criticising surrogacy". Irish Independent. Retrieved 26 April 2015.
  17. Whelan, Noel (24 April 2015). "No side posters may prove counterproductive: Many children are already being born with the assistance of surrogacy". Irish Times. Retrieved 26 April 2015.
  18. Whelan, Noel (1 May 2015). "What’s the difference between civil partnership and marriage?". Irish Times. Retrieved 1 May 2015.
  19. Kelly, Fiach (27 April 2015). "Burton attacks ‘demeaning’ posters from campaigners against same-sex marriage". Irish Times. Retrieved 27 April 2015.
  20. "Poster Campaign Controversy". TheCorkNews.ie. 24 April 2015. Retrieved 26 April 2015.
  21. Coulter, Carol (27 April 2015). "Why surrogacy has nothing to do with same-sex marriage". Irish Times. Retrieved 27 April 2015.