Byron Katie

Byron Kathleen Mitchell

(Byron Katie: 2006)
Born Byron Kathleen Reid
December 6, 1942
Breckenridge, Texas
Nationality American
Other names Byron Katie
Occupation Author, speaker
Known for

"The Work (of Byron Katie)"

A method for self-inquiry

Byron Kathleen Mitchell, better known as Byron Katie (born December 6, 1942[1]), is an American speaker and author who teaches a method of self-inquiry known as "The Work of Byron Katie" or simply as "The Work". She is married to the writer and translator Stephen Mitchell. She is the founder of Byron Katie International (BKI), an organization that includes The School for the Work and Turnaround House in Ojai, California.

Biography

In February 1986,[2] while in a halfway house for women with eating disorders, Byron Katie experienced a life-changing realization: "I discovered that when I believed my thoughts, I suffered, but that when I didn’t believe them, I didn’t suffer, and that this is true for every human being. Freedom is as simple as that. I found that suffering is optional. I found a joy within me that has never disappeared, not for a single moment." Byron Katie calls her method of self-inquiry "The Work." She has taught it to people all over the world, at free public events, in prisons, hospitals, churches, corporations, shelters for survivors of domestic violence, universities and schools, at weekend intensives, and at her nine-day School for The Work.

Process

The Work is a way of identifying and questioning any stressful thought. It consists of four questions and a turnaround. This is a way of experiencing the opposite of what you believe. The four questions are: 1) Is it true? 2) Can you absolutely know that it's true? 3) How do you react, what happens, when you believe that thought? and 4) Who would you be without the thought? The turnaround involves considering the thought in a reversed form--changing subject and object, changing yes and no, or changing it to be self-referential. For example, for the thought "My husband should treat me better," turnarounds could include "I should treat my husband better," "I should treat myself better," or "My husband shouldn't treat me better."[3]

Bibliography

References

  1. ↑ Matousek, Mark (May–June 2006). "Quit Your Pain". AARP Magazine.
  2. ↑ Massad, Sunny (2001). An Interview with Byron Katie
  3. ↑ Spencer, Stephan (08/03/2012). "Byron Katie Just Wants You to Be Happy" (INTERVIEW). Huffington Post. Retrieved 23 April 2014. Check date values in: |date= (help)

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