Barry Long

For the hockey player (born 1949), see Barry Long (ice hockey).

Barry Long (1 August 1926 – 6 December 2003[1]) was an Australian spiritual teacher and writer.

Barry Long was born and raised in Australia and had little formal education. In his twenties he became editor of a Sydney Sunday newspaper, The Truth[2] and later press secretary in the New South Wales Parliament. At this time he was married with two children. In his early thirties he began to experience a disillusionment with his material life and in 1964 he abandoned everything, including his family, to go to India. There he experienced a spiritual crisis culminating in a self-ascribed "mystic death," which he called his "realisation of immortality," followed four years later by a "transcendental realisation"; a contact with a depth of consciousness from which he stated his knowledge of universal reality ultimately derived.[3]

Leaving India he moved to London, living in Highgate and working as a sub-editor in Fleet Street until he was able to support himself from teaching and publishing. In 1986 he returned to his native Australia, living on Mount Tamborine QLD with his wife Kathy and young stepson, Simon, then in Burleigh Heads QLD when they divorced, and finally moving to Crabbes Creek NSW where he lived until his death from prostate cancer in December 2003.[1]

Long stated that he was a tantric master[4] and that unhappiness arises because man and woman have forgotten how to love each other. In 1984 he recorded a double audio cassette Making Love: Sexual Love the Divine Way, later published as a book and CD.[5]

He started his public teaching in England and later went on to teach in Australia and New Zealand, Europe, the USA and Canada. His last public seminar was the tenth annual 14 day Master Session held in Queensland, Australia in late October 2002. He continued to write new material after this and his observations on the approach of death were published on his website.

The story of his realisations is told in a book published in July 2013; My Life Of Love & Truth: A Spiritual Autobiography which describes his life up until the death of his second wife in 1982. His works are published by the Barry Long Foundation International, based in NSW, Australia[6] and his last writings have yet to be published.

Barry Long's teaching

Long's teaching focuses on freeing the individual from unhappiness which he defined as 'happy today, unhappy tomorrow'.[7] He stated that this fluctuating condition is set in motion and maintained by an addiction to thoughts and the emotions they create. These emotions encourage other thoughts and so a vicious cycle is initiated. We are trapped in this cycle, he suggested, until we follow "the way of truth". It includes:

The sexual aspects of his teaching gained great notoriety, assuming a greater prominence in the public mind than Long wished. He maintained the relationship between man and woman caused the greatest unhappiness in the post-industrial West. He taught and wrote in detail about sexual love between man and woman and its use to purify them both, ridding them of what he called 'personal, human love.'[11][12][13] He responded to controversy by pointing out that getting one's life right in all its aspects, and prolonged selfless giving were more important. He suggested that a person practicing this would naturally attract a loving sexual partner. In response to an article by Andrew Cohen he wrote "One notion I would like to correct is where you say that in my teaching "the primary spiritual practice is making love rightly." The primary spiritual practice... is self-denial, giving and honesty practiced over a long period out of an inner perception of rightness and goodness."[14]

Long also wrote about many other aspects of "Love, Life, Truth, God and Death". In The Origins of Man and the Universe he presents his cosmology.[15] Speaking of this book he stated, "There's so much in this book ....it's like a base which my whole teaching goes back to, or extends from. My current teaching might be more refined, but is always consistent with it."[16] He taught and spoke about family life and the importance of raising children from birth in justice and truth not just love.[17] In response to the September 2001 terrorist attacks in the USA, an extract on terrorism from his Origins book written in 1983 was published separately[18] as well as a new book A Prayer for Life: The Cause and Cure of Terrorism, War and Human Suffering.

Influences

Barry Long acknowledged his respect for J Krishnamurti and his teachings.[19] His teaching also owes a lot to the practicality of the Gurdjieff Work, nonetheless he considered himself to be an original teacher.[20]

He recommended an abandonment of religious tradition in favour of direct experience and asked his audience not to believe anything he said,[21] but to listen for the 'ring of truth' in it.[22]

He himself had an influence on a number of other teachers, writers and therapists.[20] The most prominent of these is Eckhart Tolle, best-selling author of The Power of Now, who is on record as saying he loved Barry Long's teaching.[23]

Marital and relationship history

Long married or lived monogamously with five women; Betty, his first wife; Julie, whom he married in England and lived with for 13 years until her death from cancer; Kathy with whom he moved to Australia with his stepson Simon; Jade who was his partner when he was travelling the world and then Sara, who was with him when he died.[24]

For about 3 years in the 1990s he openly had a relationship with five women which he spoke about in connection with his tantric teachings.[4]

His marital and relationship history was described by Clive Tempest in the foreword to "Making Love: Sexual Love The Divine Way" as such: "All this time Barry Long's love of woman has remained constant. She is always by his side. Through deep and lasting partnerships he has made his realizations of love real in the midst of everyday living."[11]

Partial bibliography

References

  1. ↑ 1.0 1.1 Guru went from The Truth to Enlightenment, The Sydney Morning Herald
  2. ↑ Tempest, Clive (16 December 2008). "Barry Long : Life and Work". Esoteric Library. Retrieved 1 March 2012.
  3. ↑ Barry Long Biography
  4. ↑ 4.0 4.1 Interview with Andrew Cohen, What is Enlightenment?
  5. ↑ Making Love
  6. ↑ About the Barry Long Foundation
  7. ↑ "Statement - The Truth of Life". Retrieved 15 July 2009.
  8. ↑ "Statement - Man's Spiritual Challenge". Retrieved 15 July 2009.
  9. ↑ "Statement - Being Present". Retrieved 15 July 2009.
  10. ↑ "Statement - Meditation". Retrieved 15 July 2009.
  11. ↑ 11.0 11.1 Barry Long on making love
  12. ↑ "Transforming Sex into Love". Retrieved 15 July 2009.
  13. ↑ Tantric Master of the West at Live Real
  14. ↑ "Letter to 'What is Enlightenment?' magazine". Retrieved 21 September 2013.
  15. ↑ Reviews of The Origins of Man and the Universe
  16. ↑ Barry Long speaking on the inspiration behind the 'Origins....' book
  17. ↑ Barry Long, Raising Children in Love Justice and Truth
  18. ↑ Barry Long on terrorism
  19. ↑ Barry Long, Talks from Tamborine Mountain, 4th Series (recorded on audio tape) - Long states: "His contribution of truth to the West was enormous. All the teachers and masters who have subsequently appeared on the scene have unavoidably been influenced by his genius. The practicality of my teaching owes much to his inspiration."
  20. ↑ 20.0 20.1 Barry Long, An Open Letter to those who try to use my teaching to teach others
  21. ↑ Barry Long, Knowing Yourself, p5
  22. ↑ Barry Long, The Origins of Man and the Universe 2nd ed. Introduction
  23. ↑ Eckhart Tolle Australian TV Interview on YouTube, Seven Network
  24. ↑ Barry Long, When the Spirit Speaks to Its Own

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