Philippine kinship

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Philippine kinship uses the Generational system (see Kinship terminology) to define family. Within common typologies, the Philippine system is one of the most simple classificatory systems of kinship compared to the complex U.S. kinship system (see Cousin). The literal genetic relationship, or whether the person being addressed is in the actual bloodline or not, is often overridden by the desire to show proper respect that is due in the Philippine culture to age and the nature of the relationship, which are considered more important.

In it, the literal differences are distinguished by generation, age, and in some cases by gender. However, non-Filipinos can be confused by apparently similar relationships being handled verbally differently by the same person, which generally occurs because of the circumstantial relationship or because some authority is represented by the addressee. Other factors that affect how a person is addressed are whether the two are familiar with each other, new to each other's acquaintance, or perhaps involved in a secondary relationship that imparts authority, such as one person being the supervisor of another at work.

As an example, a teenage girl would call her older brother "kuya". She would also tend to call her older male cousin "kuya". The fact that he is an older, blood-related male is more important than the fact that a brother is not genetically related to the same degree that a cousin is. The term "kuya" is actually likely to applied to any older male who is within her generation and should be treated with respect, perhaps even the very close friends of her brother. Thus, the terms used are often intended to show the degree of the relationship and the type of relationship, rather than literal biological relationship.

This can be seen in social settings such as Facebook when Filipino teenagers use the standard "brothers" and "sisters" categories to list any contemporary who is what USA culture would more likely call a "best friend".

Influences on language

Scholars generally disagree on the genetic origin of the "original" Filipino people, if there is any one dominant progenitor. For centuries there have been migrations from Asia, the Middle East, all the nearby Island countries, and Europe (primarily the Spanish) who have all given something genetically and etymologically to the Philippines. Over 170 dialects are recognized, but Tagalog, which is not spoken by the majority of the population, is an official language and is the dialect most recognized in the area of the capital, Manila, often referred to as Metro Manila. English is an official language,^[1] and rudimentary use of English is often more successful for communication among far-flung peoples in the Philippines than any one dialect including Tagalog. The primary reasons for the prominence of English throughout the culture is the relationship with the USA since World War II and the fact that television reaches across the country and broadcasts are sent in a mix of Tagalog and English.

The Tagalog language is considered one of the Austronesian languages, borrowing heavily from the Philippines geographical neighbors but also from Spanish, due to the Spanish colonization of the previous three centuries, adapting such terms as "Kamusta" as a greeting, taken from the Spanish "Cómo está", and also from Polynesian dialects and Cantonese. Familial greetings tend to be borrowed from Cantonese.

Terms based on biological relationships

Ego's generation

As a child you would refer to your parents as "Ama" (Tagalog formal for Father) or "Tatay" (Tagalog informal for Father) and "Ina" (Tagalog formal for Mother) or "Nanay" (Tagalog informal for Mother). Your parents' siblings and their cousins would be your "mga Tiyo" (Tagalog for Uncles) or "Tiyo" (singular Uncle) or "mga Tiya" (Tagalog for Aunts) or "Tiya" (singular Aunt). You would call your godparents as your "Ninong" (Tagalog for Godfather) and "Ninang" (Tagalog for Godmother).

Family friends one generation above you, like your parent's friends, are called "Tito" (for males) and "Tita" (for females), although they should not be confused with Tiyo and Tiya which are for blood relatives (which may also be family friends) no matter how far removed they are. Filipinos are very clannish and are known for recognizing relatives up to the 10th or even the 20th degree.

Your "mga kapatid" (Tagalog for siblings) would be your brothers or sisters. The terms "Kuya" and "Ate" are used to address an older brother and sister respectively as a sign of respect. Any children of your Tiyo (Uncle) or Tiya (Aunt) would be your "mga pinsan" (cousins) so you can either address them as "pinsan" or use the more commonly used "Kuya _____" (fill in the cousin's first name) or "Ate _____" (fill in the cousin's first name) if they are older than you, or simply address them with their first name or nickname. Your godparent's children are your kinakapatid (which literally means someone made into a sibling). The term "Kuya" is used in Tagalog for older brother and "Ate" is used in Tagalog for older sister, and those terms are what you also usually use to refer to or respect other people (including cousins and other strangers) who are in the same generation as you are but a little older, or you could use the older term Manong (big brother) and Manang (big sister) for the much older people that you don't know up to two generations ahead of you, unless they are too old and then they should be called Lolo and Lola. Manang and Manong is also commonly used to vendors, drivers, guards, and most of the service people.

The children of your "mga kapatid" (siblings) and "mga pinsan" (cousins) would be your "mga pamangkin" (nephews/nieces).

If you are a "Amang/Lolo" (Tagalog for Grandfather) or "Inang/Lola" (Tagalog for Grandmother), your "mga apo" (Tagalog for grandchildren) would be the offsprings not only of your "mga anak" (Tagalog for children) but also the offspring of your children's "mga pinsan" (Tagalog for cousins). Unless you have a different title (like "Atty.", "Dr.", "Mayor", etc.) that you are known for, you may also be addressed as "Lolo" or "Lola" by complete strangers or neighbors just by virtue of your age (usually when you are above 60 years old or already considered a senior citizen), as a form of respect.

Representation

The following tree represents the Philippine kinship system, focusing on SECOND UNCLE and YOU.

Member Family

Non-literal use of familiar terms

"Kuya" and "Ate" are also titles used to address older male and female cousins (regardless if they are the eldest or not, but older than cousin addressing them) as a sign of respect. It may also be used for people who aren't necessarily relatives but are older. The criteria would be gender (first), age (second), degree of affiliation (third), with actual blood or non-blood relationship being the least important.

"Tiyo" and "Tiya", used literally for uncle and aunt, are often confused with "Tito" and "Tita" which are used in reference to your parents' close friends. Again, the degree of affiliation in the relationship overrides the literal meaning.

This hierarchy of conditions would be consistently applied to other familial terms that are used for relationship of further distance, such as "Ninang" and "Ninong", which are often applied to people who have no actual blood relationship but have earned a showing of respect which also defines their age and gender and station in life.

Filipinos would generally greet each other using their title like: "Kamusta Ate Jhen", or "Kamusta Kuya Jay"; because doing otherwise is considered rude and disrespectful.

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