Playing doctor

This article is about juvenile exploration. For erotic activity amongst adults, see sexual roleplay and medical fetishism.

"Playing doctor" is a phrase used colloquially in the western world to refer to children examining each other's genitals.[1] It originates from children using the pretend roles of doctor and patient as a pretext for such an examination. Nevertheless, whether or not such role playing is actually involved, the phrase is still used to refer to any similar examination.[2][3][4][5][6]

Playing doctor is considered by most child psychologists to be a normal step in childhood sexual development between the ages of approximately three and six years, so long as all parties are willing participants and relatively close in age. It can be a source of discomfort to some parents to discover their children are engaging in such an activity.[7] Parenting professionals often advise parents to view such a discovery as an opportunity to calmly teach their children about the differences between the sexes, personal privacy, and respecting the privacy of other children.[4]

Adults also use the phrase facetiously in similar reference, to refer to adult sexual activity.[8]

See also

References

  1. ^ "Is Your Preschooler Playing Doctor?". FamilyEducation. http://life.familyeducation.com/sexuality/toddler/53839.html. Retrieved 4 September 2009.  Excerpted from: Boyd, Keith M.; Osborn, Kevin (1997-06). The Complete Idiot's Guide to Parenting a Preschooler and Toddler, Too. USA: Penguin Group. ISBN 978-0028617336. 
  2. ^ Pike, Lynn Blinn (January 2001). "Sexuality and Your Child: For Children Ages 3 to 7". University of Missouri Extension. http://extension.missouri.edu/xplor/hesguide/humanrel/gh6002.htm. Retrieved 4 September 2009. 
  3. ^ Kennedy, Kevin (27 October 2004). "Sexual abuse? or just playing 'Doctor'?". MedHelp. Self-published. http://www.medhelp.org/forums/ChildBehavior/messages/33006.html. Retrieved 4 September 2009. 
  4. ^ a b Clayton, Victoria (6 August 2004). "Playing doctor: How to teach kids about inappropriate touch". Growing Up Healthy. msnbc.com. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/5444897/. Retrieved 4 September 2009. 
  5. ^ Heins, Marilyn (2004). "Sex Play: parenting strategies". ParentKidsRight. Archived from the original on 14 February 2008. http://web.archive.org/web/20080214/http://www.parentkidsright.com/pt-sexplay.html. Retrieved 4 September 2009. 
  6. ^ "Why Your Child Plays Doctor". Advice from Experts. Fisher-Price. 2005. http://www.fisher-price.com/us/parentingsolutions/article_view.asp?articleid=36591. Retrieved 4 September 2009. 
  7. ^ "I Caught Them Playing Doctor!". FamilyEducation. http://www.canadianparents.com/article/i-caught-them-playing-doctor. Retrieved 4 September 2009.  Excerpted from: Pantley, Elizabeth; Sears, William (1997-06). Perfect Parenting: The Dictionary of 1,000 Parenting Tips. McGraw-Hill. ISBN 978-0809228478. 
  8. ^ Grzeskowiak, Mark (2 June 2005). "Playing Doctor". MedHunters. http://www.medhunters.com/articles/playingDoctor.html. Retrieved 4 September 2009.