Trade last

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A trade last is the concept of one person relaying a compliment overheard to another person, but only after the second person is able to provide the reciprocal. Often shortened as TL.

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[edit] Origin

Although the exact origins are unknown, it is widely suspected to have been a way for families to relay good wishes and compliments received about their children. It has roots in Louisiana, however it is practiced across much of the South.

[edit] Example

you might say: ‘Do I ever have a trade-last for you! (Insert your stupid, boring story here.) So, anyway, Anne said the other day that she thinks you seem like a nice person.’ I can guarantee you that if you have formatted your story in this way, I have listened with rapt attention to every word.[1]

[edit] Rules

Variations of these rules seem to vary depending on the region, however the following are the most generally accepted.

  • To receive a TL, you must provide the other person with one first
  • You MAY NOT solicit a compliment from someone else to fulfill a TL
  • You can use an IOU to receive a TL early if both parties agree, however it generally should not be used for more than one TL at a time.
  • A compliment can only be used once

[edit] Notes and references

  1. ^ Am I a Poor Listener, or Should You Just Shut Up?: A Primer for Party Conversation « Accismus