User talk:Fredil Yupigo/Archive/3

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Contents 1 vandalism or not 2 Re: Rakion and GunBound 3 Re: Piano 4 thanks, and about your question... 5 Still stressed? 6 thank you 7 Re: E@L 8 E@L support barnstar 9 Thank you so much! 10 StarCraft 11 Re: Welcome Back 12 don't worry 13 vandalism 14 Your question 15 Project 16 about what you wrote 17 how I archive messages 18 I need to go offline, but you can e-mail me if you need to 19 Please don't do anything stupid. 20 We don't hate you 21 Agreeing with the others who have posted 22 You are most welcome 23 <3 24 Re: User Page 25 Glad you're back 26 List of GunBound Mobiles and Attacks 27 Starting over? 28 purple colour 29 Re:Am I really? 30 Barnstar Brigade.. thanks! 31 Next time, use the history 32 Happy Thanksgiving 33 user page 34 You've been smiled!!! 35 Dear friend 36 Your page 37 Lookin good! 38 Howdy! :) 39 Thanks! 40 cold/flu 41 69.76.47.134 42 Re: Rakion 43 SoLongBaby 44 RfA 45 You're cool 46 don't think that 47 Message on userpage 48 Smiley Award 49 PMS Cycle or Menaupause 50 Smile!!!

[edit] vandalism or not

True 70.52.224.233 01:55, 10 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Re: Rakion and GunBound

Your message:

Do you play either of these? I'm going to rewrite GunBound and I thought you might want to help me. I also plan to rewrite Rakion.

I play Rakion, but not Gunbound. I would have liked to help with the Rakion article, but I'm currently on an unofficial break, so I probably wouldn't be that helpful. =P Kalani ^[talk] 06:03, 11 November 2006 (UTC)

I have a 14 archer, 7 (or 6, I can't remember) mage, and 6 ninja. xP Kalani ^[talk] 16:39, 11 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Re: Piano

Errrm... about 14 years now :) How are you feeling? You seemed depressed on Spring's talkpage... riana_dzasta 15:20, 11 November 2006 (UTC)

That's pretty cool! I stopped learning formally about 5 years ago, though (same age you are now... ). I still play everyday, largely becoming self-taught... currently learning Debussy's Claire de Lune, which is insanely hard. Probably get there in a few months :) By the way, I don't want to sound patronising, but 13 is a damn crazy age to be at. I remember, it was shite. Trust me when I say... these things pass. Usually... riana_dzasta 15:26, 11 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] thanks, and about your question...

Hi Fredil, thanks for your kind words, I appreciate them a lot. As for your question, I'm not in the right frame of mind right now to give you the answers you deserve. I'm sorry for letting you down. --Kyoko 16:53, 11 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Still stressed?

Hey Fredil, how is your contemplation of life going? Your update on the stress alerts page didn't sound encouraging, so I wanted to make sure all was okay. Hope things improve soon. -- Natalya 17:04, 11 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] thank you

Hello Fredil, and thanks for your message. You wrote that "Rarely do people even have a fraction of your strength". I appreciate the sentiment, but I don't think of myself as being strong at all. I could say more, but I don't want to depress you. As a side note, you're not foresaken, but I'm not in the shape to give you advice right now. I'm sorry. I am recovering, slowly, but depression is something I've had for many years, even though most of the time I tried to deny that I needed help. It will just take time to work things through. Thanks again. --Kyoko 00:29, 12 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Re: E@L

It was a big step for her to come online here. But, as I said on her talkpage, I'd rather not discuss this here. Just a matter of courtesy to her - I don't want to trivialise her problems by talking about them like this. You don't mind, right? riana_dzasta 14:36, 12 November 2006 (UTC)

*phew* :) Hope you're feeling less stressed? riana_dzasta 14:39, 12 November 2006 (UTC)

That's great to hear! (You being less stressed, not the project.) I have to do some last minute cramming for my exam, so I'll talk to ya later. Ciao, riana_dzasta 14:45, 12 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] E@L support barnstar

		The Random Acts of Kindness Barnstar
		Though what you did is not so random, I, on behalf of E@L, award you this barnstar for all your support. Randfan 18:35, 12 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Thank you so much!

Thank you so much for your support! I can't say thank you enough for the support that you have shown me over the past few days. It means the world to me, and has certainly helped me along the road to recovery! I will cherish forever the kind messages and "gifts" that were sent to me and think of them whenever times are rough. I didn't realise that my absence would cause so much concern, and I apologise if I caused anyone undue stress. I feel that I owe you an explanation, at least! for what happened, to return in some small way the kindness you showed to me. I will post it here as soon as possible, if you would like to know the reason for my brief departure and the links on my userpage. Thank you so much for your kind words and your advice, Fredil. I appreciate it even more knowing that you are going through rough times yourself: it's harder than people realise to put yourself last and unselfishly care for others. I would like to return the favour and let you know that, friend to friend, I am here if you would like to talk. My depression started when I was eleven, so I understand where you're coming from! I'm also closer to your age than you might think. I commend you for your admirable maturity, in dealing with my situation as well as your own. I hope you work through this so we can all pull through together; I know it seems impossible at times, but every now and then I catch a glimpse of hope and things brighten just a touch. I hope you don't hesitate to e-mail me if you want someone to talk to! Editor at Large(speak) 02:27, 13 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] StarCraft

Do you play? Fredil ^{Shadows of Darkness} 21:04, 12 November 2006 (UTC)

Yes, unfortunately a bit too much perhaps. --Cat out 03:39, 13 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Re: Welcome Back

Well, I couldn't leave you to become one of those cold-hearted bastards, now could I? ILovePlankton 03:48, 13 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] don't worry

Hi there, don't worry, I'm not going to do anything drastic. I'm just frustrated at myself for being so emotionally fragile. Nobody deserves to be depressed (and yes, I saw the initial version of what you wrote). Not me, not you, not anyone. --Kyoko 01:24, 14 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] vandalism

_{congratulations on your vandalism to my vandalism page. yay. you are da first one so i give you this barnstar}

[edit] Your question

How does the sun keep going? A: The sun does not run out because of gravity and the forces within the sun. In the sun's core, nuclear fusion is occuring, producing atoms. The atoms travel outward at an agonizingly slow pace. It's gravity and the outward pushing of atoms that keeps our sun stable, and nuclear fusion is how the sun "keeps going". If you don't understand, visit my user page, and you'll see that I'm an amateur astronomer. Oh and by the way, you put that question on the discussion page of my Southern Hemisphere survey page. Peace out. AstroBoy 05:00, 14 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Project

Hey, good luck with that! Hope it goes really well... riana_dzasta 01:11, 16 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] about what you wrote

Hi Fredil, I just read your message, and I wanted to say there are many things I've done that I'm not proud of, and that this is probably true with most people to a lesser or greater degree. Not to get into details, but I really put my parents through hell when I was a few years older than you. I wish that I could elevate your mood, but I'm not sure how. --Kyoko 02:40, 16 November 2006 (UTC)

My earlier comment about my parents was an understatement. I'll just say this: at the time, I didn't understand my parents at all, and I felt that they didn't understand me. Now we understand each other much better, so perhaps my experience will give you some hope. I'm glad that I was at least a little able to help. Thanks for the flowers. --Kyoko 02:54, 16 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] how I archive messages

Hi Fredil, I hope you are feeling better. I archive my talk page messages manually by cutting and pasting, and they are organised chronologically, roughly divided by conversation threads. In my latest archive, I wanted to keep messages prior to November 5, because E@L had left a series of messages under one header, starting on that date. I should fix the title of my latest archive so that it says "- November 4, 2006". I hope this helps. --Kyoko 00:15, 17 No== Fredil, what's wrong? ==

Hi there, I saw your talk page request for deletion, looked at your userpage, and now I'm worried. What's wrong?--Kyoko 15:15, 18 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] I need to go offline, but you can e-mail me if you need to

The subject header says it all. I hope you won't make the same mistakes I did. --Kyoko 15:24, 18 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Please don't do anything stupid.

There are people here who care about you, even if your parents don't seem to. And by the way, they really do.--Chili 16:25, 18 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] We don't hate you

Fedil, we don't hate you here! Why don't you take a little bit of a break if you need it, and then come back when you're happier —Mets501 (talk) 17:29, 18 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Agreeing with the others who have posted

I agree with the people who have posted above. I don't know what the subject of your disagreement with your parents is, but younger people disagreeing with their parents is part of life (older people disagree with their parents sometimes too :). That doesn't mean that they don't like you, and even less does it mean that nobody does. Your occasional disagreements with people on Wikipedia aren't the end of the world; we're a community of strong-minded people, and sometimes there will be disagreements. So I know it's easy for me to say this, but try to feel better about things. Regards, Newyorkbrad 17:39, 18 November 2006 (UTC)

It's not generally kosher to delete talk pages so I removed the speedy tag. Feel free to get another opinion but this has been at CAT:CSD for a long time with no one acting. —Wknight94 (talk) 21:49, 18 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] You are most welcome

Hi Fredil, I'm glad to hear that you won't do anything drastic, and you are quite welcome. --Kyoko 01:41, 19 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] <3

Hey, Fredil! I saw you changed your userpage... That's not good :-( I want to let you know how very, very much we care about you here. No hate, just love. Please e-mail me if you want/need to talk. I'm here for you, my friend! — Editor at Large^(speak) 04:45, 19 November 2006 (UTC)

Hear, hear. Will ^{(Tell me, is something eluding you, sunshine?)} 05:09, 19 November 2006 (UTC)

vember 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Re: User Page

Of course I don't mind! Let me know when it's done, so I can see what you did with it. Cheers! :) – ClockworkSoul 17:31, 19 November 2006 (UTC)

Let me know if you need any help figuring out what I did. It's a bit of a tangled mess. – ClockworkSoul 01:13, 20 November 2006 (UTC)

Everything looks fine to me! It looks like you got it working. It looks great! – ClockworkSoul 07:36, 23 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Glad you're back

We were worried :) Will ^{(Tell me, is something eluding you, sunshine?)} 18:02, 19 November 2006 (UTC)

Hoorah! Good stuff. I'm so glad you're feeling a bit better. Let me know how things are going. :-) *dances around room* — Editor at Large^(speak) 23:41, 19 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] List of GunBound Mobiles and Attacks

Hi there, the above article is up for deletion discussion. Please feel free to join in via the link in the article Bwithh 23:05, 19 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Starting over?

You say you're starting over but I'm just not seeing it. I'm not going to be patronizing and leave you a civility warning or other such nonsense; you know exactly what you're doing, so warnings are unnecessary. I would highly recommend that you actually do "start over". --Cyde Weys 04:06, 20 November 2006 (UTC)

I don't see what he did wrong. And I congratulate you, Fredil, for your comment in <!---->s. —  $PЯINGrαgђ  Always loyal! 05:15, 20 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] purple colour

Hi Fredil, the name of the colour, according to Web colors, is thistle, hex code D8BFD8, and if you've read my user page, you know why I chose the colour. I've redone my user and talk pages to more prominently use that shade of purple without compromising legibility. I hope you like the results. --Kyoko 01:00, 21 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Re:Am I really?

No, absolutely not. You're in a rough spot right now, Fredil, it takes time to go back to your normal self. Everybody deals with it differently – if you’re having a hard time keeping your head and you don’t like the results, perhaps un-watch stressful pages (certain MfD’s) and just focus on the encyclopedia for a while. I’ve forced myself to do this to some extent, and have found it helps.

Just remember that you have friends here, and we will support you through tough times. Keep your chin up and make the best of your fresh start, Fredil: I’m here to help :-) — Editor at Large^(speak) 04:03, 21 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Barnstar Brigade.. thanks!

Thanks for removing the userbox for Barnstar Brigade.. and yes it is quite unfortunate that it doesn't exist anymore :( --lovelaughterlife♥ (user|talk) 05:06, 21 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Next time, use the history

Like I said, I feel people should have waited, but they didn't. Furthermore, I gave Cyde a barnstar for mostly his efforts in Hangman and in the stupid Wikicouch affair, and in the Esperanza Games. I don't particularly appreciate the insinuation that I'm a hypocrite and if you have time to look up barnstars you should have found my statements where I suggested holding off on further MfD's. The fact that you didn't suggests you are being pointy. Please -- you're 13 , you're already upset, and you are not thinking clearly. Drop this, now. --Elaragirl^Talk|Count 03:15, 22 November 2006 (UTC)

*shrugs* It's okay. I'm not suprised you're getting email, I got a pile of screed myself too. But I tend to research it before I tear someone's head off their shoulder. A lot of people are VERY upset with me since in their minds I "led the charge" against Esperanza, and perhaps they have a right to be upset since I am a royal pain in the ass. But I didn't do it for kicks, and I *do* hope Esperanza can reform itself and do what it's supposed to do again. Something interesting: Wikibooks said they NEEDED Esperanza on their site. Maybe there's something you can do to help out there too. --Elaragirl^Talk|Count 03:32, 22 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Happy Thanksgiving

Happy Thanksgiving...I hope life is treating you well. Have a nice day!__Seadog ^♪ 16:16, 23 November 2006 (UTC)

Oh...Okay, sorry about that one! Still I wish you a great day. Cheers!__Seadog ^♪ 18:56, 23 November 2006 (UTC)

It would be a good idea to have Canada's Thanskgiving Day and the U.S.'s Thanksgiving Day on the same day...would be great for retailers. And, I am sorry, but I didn't cook the turkey :-( Bearly541 02:31, 24 November 2006 (UTC)

Okay, I don't have smileys now. :-( Happy? Bearly541 02:42, 24 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] user page

I like your userpage colour! It looks good! Happy Thanksgiving! Cheers, mate! :) —Randfan!! 04:15, 24 November 2006 (UTC)

I love your new userpage! Even more than the colour change, I think all the added text is the best change of all. I'm touched at your description of me. Describing me as "emotionally sensitive" carries many levels of meaning, too. You did a fantastic job! Maybe you can figure out why on my userpage, the bar of useful links extends farther than the rest of the boxes. Again, great job with the redesign! --Kyoko 12:19, 24 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] You've been smiled!!!

I hope you are having a good day. If you are not, know that there are people here who will try to make sure that you do.--Chili 04:17, 24 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Dear friend

		The Barnstar of Good Humor
		This Barnstar is awarded to you for keeping your cool...especially considering what you have gone through lately on Wikipedia and in the Real Life

Good job Fredil...I noticed that you and User:Cyde have had some troubles but this happens to the best of us. Also good job constructing your userpage. Looks very nice and clean.__Seadog ^♪ 18:20, 24 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Your page

Cool, dude! :D I like it! "Now, what would you like on your pizza?" made me laugh hard. As for my description in your friends section…not exaggerated at all. B-) —  $PЯINGrαgђ  Always loyal! 19:50, 24 November 2006 (UTC)

Purple most certainly. ;) —  $PЯINGrαgђ  Always loyal! 17:14, 25 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Lookin good!

I like it, and I see from the above messages that others like it too. Great job! – ClockworkSoul 22:07, 24 November 2006 (UTC)

I would recommend that you make your talk page use left align though. People tend to rely quite a bit on indentation to follow threads, and centering messes with that. Just a suggestion... Cheers! – ClockworkSoul 23:25, 24 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Howdy! :)

Awww, Fredil, I just saw what you wrote about me on your userpage! That's so nice of you - hugs - I'm glad to see that you seem to be feeling better... and if you're not feeling 100% yet, I guess we'll just have to keep smiling at ya. Take care of yourself, and try not to bang heads with people on the Wiki too much, eh? ;) riana_dzasta 09:23, 25 November 2006 (UTC)

Not bad! But I'm biased towards anything in shades of blue, green or purple :) riana_dzasta 16:41, 25 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Thanks!

Thanks :) I just added him...he patrols my talk page and sniffs out the vandalism.__Seadog ^♪ 16:30, 25 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] cold/flu

Hi Fredil, I think it's more likely the flu because I'll feel very cold, and then very hot, and my body aches all over. I hope we both get better soon. --Kyoko 17:22, 25 November 2006 (UTC)

Hi, thanks again. I think I'm going to try to sleep. 'Bye! --Kyoko 18:51, 25 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] 69.76.47.134

Hello - I reported 69.76.47.134 for vandalism, but you removed the entry without blocking, stating the IP is "already blocked" - however, the only block for that IP is from the 24th of October. Could you please re-review? Thanks! --AbsolutDan ^(talk) 00:15, 27 November 2006 (UTC)

Nevermind, I've just re-listed it at AIV instead. Cheers --AbsolutDan ^(talk) 00:50, 27 November 2006 (UTC)

No worries - turns out I made a mistake of my own. The vandal had a spam4 but not a final4, so it all worked out in the end. Take care --AbsolutDan ^(talk) 05:14, 28 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Re: Rakion

I just did a major rewrite of the "Classes" secion, can you have a look and tell me what you think? Thanks. Fredil 20:32, 26 November 2006 (UTC)

It looks much better. Nice job on the improvement! =) Kalani ^[talk] 02:02, 27 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] SoLongBaby

Hi. I noticed you removed my Administrator intervention against vandalism request for SoLongBaby, but I don't see any action or discussion. We're really getting tired of this editor (and the 3 others that are all probably the same person) removing content but refusing to acknowledge or participate in any way with the discussion and consensus about the content in question. I'm placing yet another warning on SoLongBaby's talk page. Please advise on how I can help with this editor if something isn't already being done. Thanks. --Ronz 05:07, 27 November 2006 (UTC)

Thanks for the reply. I'm a bit confused. Next time one of the four does it I'll ask for intervention and start a sockpuppet report. Thanks. --Ronz 00:45, 28 November 2006 (UTC)

Bah, he did it again. --Ronz 01:34, 28 November 2006 (UTC)

BelongsInAstub (talk · contribs), SerendipityHasIt (talk · contribs), and Serenedipity2006 (talk · contribs) have all made the same edits. The possible sockpuppetry was noted on Talk:Dental_floss on Nov 16, but none of them have responded. --Ronz 01:45, 28 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] RfA

Hello Fredil - wow, thanks, I'm totally lost for words. Thanks so much! Unfortunately I'll have to decline at this point, as - for a variety of reasons - I don't think it would be completely feasible for me to run at this point, mainly because I'm rather busy in real life right now (post-exam mania) and don't think it'd be quite right for me right now. I wasn't really planning on running until April/March of next year, so this is a little unexpected :) Thanks all the same, I'm glad you think I'm doing a good job, but I feel that if a person isn't completely ready for adminship themselves, they'll likely do a pretty poor job of it. Thanks again :) But not this time. I hope you understand. riana_dzasta 02:53, 28 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] You're cool

Dooooode! I wish it was eighteen C now (it's eighteen F)! But it's still nice to be cool, C or F. :P —  $PЯINGrαgђ  Always loyal! 18:01, 29 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] don't think that

Hi Fredil, don't think that you're stupid, you write well and have insights on a lot of things.

I don't know if it will comfort you at all, but the insecurities you're feeling are most likely shared by everyone else in your class, whether or not they choose to voice them. --Kyoko 00:40, 1 December 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Message on userpage

Whoa, there, my friend. We? are not perfect. I know for SURE that I am not perfect! I get the whole rant about everything I do wrong from my dad, too, and it definitely stresses me out. I think I understand how you feel.

Just know that those problems are their problems with you, not fundamental flaws within yourself. We all have problems with everybody. Nobody is perfect, or can ever hope to be; all you can do is try your best and if that isn't enough for some people, don't get discouraged. You will never be loved by everybody, Fredil, despite how very much I and others would like to change that. That is not your fault.

Please remember that people do like you here, and that you matter to us. You absolutely matter. Every single edit and every single message you leave people matters. Do you know how many times you've brightened up my day when I've logged on and found the orange bar leading me to a lovely message from you? Many! Each of those messages and each of those days mattered a great deal to me, and still matter when I read the messages again or remember how I felt when I read them the first time.

I care about you, Fredil. I like you. I think you're a great person. And I know, for a fact, that there are many people here who would agree with me! — Editor at Large^(speak) 00:40, 1 December 2006 (UTC)

Mmm, yeah, what she said. Sorry about not writing more, my energy level's a bit low. I hope, Fredil, that you will realise that are a special person, no matter how others may try to bring you down. --Kyoko 00:50, 1 December 2006 (UTC)

You are most definatey a good great MAGNIFICENT person! I completely agreewith Kyoko and E@l! You are not flawed to that level or any other! Just because you're slightly imperfect does't mean you are completely imperfect! You matter to all of us and are in a special place in our heart. I beg you, please, please realize how great of a person you really are! —¡Randfan! 20:04, 1 December 2006 (UTC)

You matter to each and every one of us...Because you are you. This will never change..nor should it, you are a kind and caring person and you are who you are. Every one here loves you and you must remember that.__Seadog ^♪ 21:23, 1 December 2006 (UTC)

Imperfect? Nobody's perfect! You are a really great person, and just because someone thinks you are one thing doesn't mean you are at all. We all care for you, and hope you realize that you are wrong about this. —The Great Llama^moo? 21:25, 1 December 2006 (UTC)

Hi Fredil! I hope you don't feel too bad, because I'm sure we've all felt that way before. It stinks getting shouted at, but you have to let go of it; you can't keep feeling the same way as you do now. It's not good for your health to feel sorry for yourself, mentally or physically. Perhaps you should think of all the nice things you've done, of all the nice moments you've had. I myself have called my-self stupid, and recieved a similar response from others. A long time ago, I forgot to do something important, and this triggered a 15-minute long scolding. Now, I just remember a line, "What is your mental problem!?!", and I laugh at it. Things like that pass soon. What you do not want to do is mope around. I can assure you, your classmates have problems equally great-if not worse than-yours. Try to smile, even if you don't feel like it, and do some things you like. This should take your mind off things. Also, if it helps, these links ara for teen-agers who need help.[1] [2] Your friend, AndonicO ^{Talk | Sign Here} 21:49, 1 December 2006 (UTC)

If you need anyone to talk to, I'll be here. I'm as good at listening to people's problems as well as talking about my own problems. :) Will ^{(Tell me, is something eluding you, Sunshine?)} 21:56, 1 December 2006 (UTC)

Fredil! Don't be sad, please. I know it's really hard when you're fighting with your parents, but just remember that, well, they're dealing with it for the first time too, so it won't be perfect. I am sure that they only want the best for you, but possibly can't find the words to say it properly. If you all give each other some time, some space and some patience, I know it will work out for the best. My mum and I used to fight all the time when I was younger, and now, she's my best friend. Sometimes we forget to see our parents as people, and we tend to think that they can't make mistakes. Just give it some time. And you are most definitely not stupid, I am convinced of that, so don't tell yourself you are! Just try to take your mind off things by doing the stuff you like, and slowly you'll feel better. Chin up, laddie, and stay strong for us! riana_dzasta 06:01, 2 December 2006 (UTC)

Bottom line: NO Wikipedian is stupid. People just sometimes say stupid without really meaning it. | AndonicO ^{Talk | Sign Here} 11:49, 5 December 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Smiley Award

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[edit] PMS Cycle or Menaupause

Your mom is probably going through these things, which causes emotional changes. Don't take it too seriously. Bearly541 01:00, 2 December 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Smile!!!