Talk:Erotic spanking

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Articles for deletion This article was nominated for deletion on 2007-01-03. The result of the discussion was keep.

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[edit] Comment

Is this topic worthy of a seperate article, or is it adequately covered in BDSM? --Robert Merkel

LOL, only in wikipedia can we find authoritative articles on topics such as this. (Dan (talk) 01:12, 26 April 2008 (UTC))


[edit] spank

spanking is normal dudes... nothing weird about it, its not even a fetish. Dont believe me? Hit your girl on her butt when you are having sex and see for yourself. Afraid to do that? Rent a porn movie, chances are pretty big that someone is getting spanked in it. 82.92.111.48 16:36, 13 May 2006 (UTC)


There now is an article, see Erotic_spanking --145.254.75.239 23:54, 26 Jan 2004 (UTC)

This topic is worthy of a seperate article, since 'spankos' often do not find themselves practising a form of BDSM. This is at least an indication that BDSM and erotic spanking are more loosely related than is assumed.

[edit] Younger men who have a fetish for being spanked by older men

I was wondering what anyone thought about young people who want to get spanked normally by someone who also has a fetish to spank younger guys. Role-play is normally engaged in such encounters involving an authority figure like a headmaster, uncle, grandfather, priest. Does a guy that has a fetish for spanking or being spanked by another man have to be homosexuality?

Good question. I would say perhaps not.

Some people might get off on just being spanked by anyone or anything. If you fell into a mixing vat and got paddled and liked it. The pain is the point of arousal not the gender.

Some people might get off on just being able to control or be controlled. Not really about gender but on the acceptance or rejection of control. Childhood and innocence regained. Empowerment. Anything that would releave a hang up or provide an ego boost would be bound to stimulate sexual impulse.

I think another question you have to ask is how much the other person is involved in erotic spanking/ sm. Are you really having a sexual encounter with your self and your own ideals/ issues? Are there any feelings for the other person involved? Are you truly getting off on seeing, touching the anatomy? Or are you really just getting yourself off.

I dunno if there is an erotic element in fraternity hazing with a paddle or jocks swatting each others butts on the field and so on. Men showing affection, erotic or otherwise, with other men has always been tricky.

rofl, not a single person signed their comments on this page.

[edit] Over the shoulder spanking.

I was just going to ask,is it possible for the spanker to hoist his or her spankee over one shoulder,and then spank him or her with his/her free hand? if it's possible,chances are it's been done before. added to article.

which goes some way to explaining why large parts of this read as if they have been made up. it has been. have removed over shoulder comment as pure fiction. raining girl 18:28, 20 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Spankable nurse

User:Mdwh removed a link I added here and called it spam. The link was to a free program, created with opensource software and was a perfect illustration for this article's topic. In what universe is that considered spam? see http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Erotic_spanking&diff=81637194&oldid=81636998

If the topic were interactive 3D spanking programs then it would be appropriate. The link doesn't inform readers in any significant way about the phenomenon of erotic spanking. -Will Beback 21:32, 16 October 2006 (UTC)
Ok, I see where you're coming from and respect your opinion. On the other hand, the link does illustrate the article's topic really well and it isn't spam. I feel the link is an excellent addition.
Okay, it's not commercial spam, but I was using spam in the looser "advertising" sense which you posted to a couple of articles. I'm not sure what this link would add to the article (see Wikipedia:External links) - surely a 2D image (which we already have) is far more accessible and easier as an illustration than someone having to download a 3D model? Mdwh 21:50, 16 October 2006 (UTC)

[edit] this article is erotic fiction in itself

large parts of this article read as they have been made up - especially all the non-erotic play stuff - paddles hung on children's walls? C'mon. This is an encyclopaedia. If no-one objects I am going to prune this back severely. raining girl 18:30, 20 November 2006 (UTC)

I agree with you -- well said. Problems with items of fact, as well as word choices that say something very different than what the author probably intended, e.g., "spanking is a reflex, like sitting down or making dinner." [User:NicoSuave] 23 November 2006

I have edited out a great deal of that. It still needs alot more editing, and citations to make it a reference rather than opinion. Atom 12:47, 4 January 2007 (UTC)

[edit] Speedy deletion

I've removed the previous speedy deletion notice that was put up by a someone who was not an administrator. While the article might be considered for deletion, it should be done in accordance with proper Wiki policies. Zotdragon 20:34, 3 January 2007 (UTC)

Errrm, you do not have to be an admin to nominate an article for speedy deletion. Only an admin can actually carry out the deletion, but anyone can request it. See WP:SPEEDY for more information.--NeoNerd 20:28, 6 May 2007 (UTC)

[edit] Great site for info on erotic spanking

Master The Art Of Erotic Spanking

This website goes through some of the biological and psychological reasons for woman (or men) to become sexually stimulated from the act of spanking. Really this is an overall better overview of the fetish, in my opinion, than the wikipedia article. —The preceding unsigned comment was added by 68.79.11.112 (talk) 02:54, 18 March 2007 (UTC).

[edit] Miss Martindale nominated for deletion

The article on Miss Martindale has been nominated for deletion. Interested parties are encouraged to weigh in with a vote at Wikipedia:Articles_for_deletion/Miss_Martindale. Thank you! Joie de Vivre 22:43, 21 May 2007 (UTC)

[edit] Title

Shouldn't this article be titled "Erotic flagellation" or something similar?-Wafulz (talk) 17:36, 27 December 2007 (UTC)

I've moved the article. If you have any objections, feel free to voice them.-Wafulz (talk) 05:33, 9 January 2008 (UTC)
Actually strike that, I'm second-guessing myself, so I'll give it some more time.-Wafulz (talk) 05:37, 9 January 2008 (UTC)