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[edit] My concern about issues of conduct
Hello, ConductConcern, and thank you for contributing to Wikipedia!
I hope not to seem unfriendly or make you feel unwelcome, but after reading some of your text, I am concerned that Wikipedia's policies and guidelines might not have been properly presented to you, and that you may encounter criticism for appearing not to follow them. After you look over the documents linked above, could we discuss that concern here?
I'd appreciate learning your own views, for instance whether you were aware of these documents, what is your philosophy about interacting with other editors, and what alternative approaches you might willingly adopt that would avoid raising this concern.
You have several options freely available to you:
- If you can relieve my concern through discussing it here, I can stop worrying about it.
- If the two of us can't agree here, we can ask for help through Wikipedia's dispute resolution process, such as asking for a "third opinion", or requesting comments from other Wikipedians. Admins usually abide by agreements reached through this process.
- If you prefer not to deal with me at all, you can ask others for guidance: there are experienced Wikipedians who offer mentorship, "adoption", or advocacy; and many admins will also make the time to answer earnest questions on their talk pages (though some are either very busy or away on "Wikibreak").
- Any time you feel overwhelmed by the complexity of it all, you can simply post {{helpme}} here on your talk page, with a description of your questions or problems, and someone will show up to help you find answers or solutions.
Let me reassure you that my writing here means I don't think your conduct is so bad as to get reported straight to administrator noticeboards or get you summarily blocked. I hope matters will never become that severe. So I look forward to a friendly discussion, and to enjoying your continued participation on Wikipedia. Thank you again! -- ~~~~
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- This template is to notify a user of a possible user conduct issue, assuming good faith and not biting, before going to WP:RFC/USER.
- Feel free to write your own message from scratch, or paraphrase this template in your own personal style. This template is not compulsory, it exists for anyone whom it may help to save time and effort in typing or in finding a diplomatic way to bring up the issue.
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- This template takes a single optional but very strongly recommended parameter: one or more sentences expressing the specific nature of your concern about the user's conduct. Please say it as gently but clearly as possible, while assuming good faith and presuming the possibility of innocent error or another reasonable explanation. For instance, I think it's better not to accuse editors with different opinions of having malicious motives, as your edits in [[Talk:Article#Section]] and [[User talk:Username#Section]] appeared to do. Please [[WP:AGF|assume good faith]] and be gentle with other people's feelings.; or I worry that tempers are getting strained at [[Talk:Article#Section]]. Would you consider taking a short break from editing there, perhaps for a couple of days, just to let everyone (including yourself) cool down? If provided, this concern will be cited in the message, as a new paragraph following "could we discuss that concern here?"
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