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[edit] You're into pregnant women? Here are the facts

To come & think of it, I can picture a man & his pregnant wife/lover has a cute, innocent or sexy ring to success of their love together and want to make a family. But here's tips about the reality of any thought of guys into preg women. so you wanna be lovers in a real relationship with a woman expecting a child? I truly want you all to understand and "right at you". I dont know you imagine your mother in a sex act with your father. and for her child soon to arrive, sex while pregnant with him/her? cant be thinkable.

For one thing, you need not only accept her condition having a baby (are you ready to accept the responsbility, because the baby comes first in her life!) but to handle her pregnancy symptoms and she's not always in a good mood (any of you men love to find her lay down in bed or the couch all day? would you dare love to rub her feet if you admire her physique?). she can get emotional mood swings, but it depends on a prego's comfort level at a given time. now envision you in a womans body with a big round belly block sight of your feet.

Pregnant women experienced a great variety of symptoms, body changes and sexual drives (each pregnancy is different for women who don't share 100% of their experiences compared to other women). Some preggies may look wider due to body mass, height, weight or genetics (good way to discover not all new moms lose weight immediately, and stretch marks may disappear in a year, 5 years, 10 years or for lots of women, never). some women can't carry the unborn into full term, or may get injured or a life-threatening condition develops. there are plenty of pregnancies gone bad. but the best healthy pregnancy is not easy, but thats why its called gestation (carry a child).

She's going to gain weight while most preggies admit they had a "thin" shape but fat buildup in the front and other places (thighs or arms or face) -She may gain. some: 20-25 pds., average: 25-30 pds., others: 30-35-40 pds. and rarely: 40-50 pds make her body appear 'fat' (oh yes, try to watch your words on her appearance)...of course, her belly and physique grows to accomodate an unborn baby dependent on her nourishment really helps to think of it wisely. some pregies lose the ability to walk safe or striaght, dont want her fall? carry her place to place from lamaze to ob/gyn to family home in a baby shower, the other girls will be impressed how much you care about her.

All I know is most pregnancies came with normal sex drive, sometimes it may peak in a fine minority of preggies (the same hormones made her big or 'fat' is proven to affect her mind, but i'll be clear on this: any man ready for her if not turned on or not get jolly when she's in the mood?), and don't forget some aren't in the mood (not uncommon) or feel like sex right here or now. what about 3 mos. preg. - she don't feel so good, 6 mos. preg- she feels better but starts to show - and 9 mos. preg. - very preg. may be ordered to rest or avoid sex, somehow I hope I didn't burst your fantasy bubble.

I've admit it once and for all: her breasts and butts may look good for sore eyes to us guys who truly admire or turned on by it, but here's the catch: breasts can drip, leak, itch or crack, and not always a pleasant experience in some women...bigger breasts ache when they are heavy or swollen (keep in mind she don't want ogling when the time's not right). the only natural explanation for big breasts is to breastfeed her baby when it arrives. why men love her "boobies" is beyond me, probably a symbol of femininity or one of two body parts isolated in women (the other is her vagina! a major part to get the baby out) not limited to sexual pleasure, so think closely on this.

And bodily functions, it's gross but so true, happens more often in pregnant women, sometimes not so much and others unexpectedly, like in one moment, you're holding her close together (how romantic) and uh oh...she can't help it when her uterus is full or abdomen carry a developing child next to her stomach, bladder, intenstines and if she's constipated or got gas (you may hear it...but most of you won't place an ear on her belly in this case). I never think it's a "turn on" (self-explanatory).

Sometimes, a prego's fetus position can make her really uncomfortable, esp. in the 3rd trimester, might outdo her 1st mister when accompanied with nausea/morning sickness. And remember, if you pregos or maiseos pursue a romantic or "lots-of-sex" relationship. it's un-neccesary, you don't need sex or place an emphasis of sex in pregnancy. I don't find it essential but for he and she to bond takes other than sex. and this concerns me about all of your ideas of what a woman having a baby is.

But do you (men attracted to her pregnant state) find her nice, compatiable and beautiful. you look in her soul, want to share a duty to raise her baby. or the way she looks cuz it seems gross or focus only on her body? think about it. yes, "the woman's belly grows, but her face glows" is typical of the mystical aura of pregnancy. and "she gotten a huge gut, but you focus on her large butt" is slapstick and funny, but not appropriate to many women while pregnant. you may want to talk to her or no need to flirt et al.

You guys got to be more sensitive and for the girls, I'm not sure you know where you're heading. i warn you preg. moms to be, don't get used or tricked into anything, your heart will break and the moment of pregnancy most women find it special, memorable and usually positive is ruined. my tips is to ensure the guys the reality of having a baby inside your body isn't totally sex, but to continue your family and the human race. the preg fetish thing don't impress me much.

I will complete the jib-jab, but may my tips inform and educate you gusy into the prego fetish. if you like to date one, thats fine and not my decision. but stop by a fast food joint whenever she craves in 2AM (thats why its called eatin for two) then come the heartburn (stop for antacids at the pharmacy). she may be "up all nite" if the baby stop havin hiccups (or the mom gets em worse). and take the covers off cuz "shes hot" when its 30f cold outside. now thats pregnancy and the real basis you must accept of her.

- a married woman, mom of 3 children, forever with him.

[edit] Human sexuality

Why are you trying to disuade anybody from their lusts? Just because you find something horrifying doesn't mean that someone else will find it to be there greatest pleasurable fantasy. Yes there are people that find the complications and pain off childbirth sexually arousing. Just because you don't know them on a personal level or they are never brought up doesn't mean that they dont exist. There is just about nothing in the know universe that no one would find sexually attractive. There's even a fetish for rolling around in the dirt. Don't think that something as human as pregnancy is off limits.

Anyways, its not really your place to decide what people 'need to learn' when it comes to something they can not change. —Preceding unsigned comment added by 74.160.71.14 (talk) 15:34, 28 December 2007 (UTC)