Ruined orgasm

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A ruined orgasm is a technique, usually used by a woman dominating a man, of allowing physical sexual release while denying psychological satisfaction. The person is stimulated to the moment ejaculation is inevitable Stimulation may be stopped by breaking physical contact the moment he or she starts to come. Alternatively, the stimulator may talk about a decidedly unerotic topic during the orgasming, inflicting pain of a sort that the stimulator knows that the other person does not find erotic, or forcing him or her to breathe an unpleasant smell. Another technique is to interfere with the ejaculation by some sort of constriction.

This practice may be followed by couples who also practise erotic sexual denial. However, it may also be used without denial techniques.

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