Talk:Pregnancy fetishism

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

You have new messages (last change).

This is the talk page for discussing improvements to the Pregnancy fetishism article.
This is not a forum for general discussion about the article's subject.
Article policies

Contents

[edit] Maiesiophilia

Please don't move the entire entry arbitrarily because you think "Maiesiophilia", "Maieusiophilia" or "Maeiusiophilia" or anything else is the right spelling. There is much debate as to the spelling of that word, so I suggest the article stay here, and anyone interested in moving it try debating it here. (Darien Shields 19:23, 20 August 2005 (UTC))


I apologise if any of my recent additions (the Community, Art, and Fiction information) is inappropriate to this article, and will completely understand if it is removed in the future. (Darien Shields 02:43, 23 July 2005 (UTC))


I am unsure what sorts of sites to include as External Links. I personally own a maieusiophilia site, but I'm concerned that linking it would be immoral, self serving, or suchlike, and furthermore, whether it is even that relevant. Although I'd say it's as relevant as the porn site that is currently linked. There are a whole load of sites that I could link (I composed a small table of all known sites on my own, which can be found here: http://outsideeden.com/sitedirectory.html ), but I don't know how many could really be considered relevant. Someone also suggested that I ask permission of site owners before linking their sites. I really hadn't considered this before. Is there a wikipedia policy on linking permission? Well, anyway, I might add these things since I doubt I will get any reply swiftly, but would completely understand (and apologise) if someone else subsequently removed them. (Darien Shields 22:56, 22 July 2005 (UTC))

Your work so far seems to be good. I can't believe there would be a problem with linking to sites because you'd be generating traffic for them (which I assume is what they want).--DarkSide6 07:35, 3 August 2005 (UTC)
One person seemed worried that it might bring trolls who wanted to make fun of folk. That's happened before, but usually when links are placed on sites like "Something Awful". Anyway, I got presmission from the person primarilly involved (Darien Shields 05:41, 4 August 2005 (UTC))
I stumbled to a web link similar to what DS shown us: pregnanthotties.com (not an advertisement, but to conduct research on the subject matter). Please you must be 18 to enter and requires a subscriber membership by filling out an online application. I believe the site can't be viewed in in several US states and a few countries (illegal there or to access them blocked?) About maiesiophilia...if a small number of movies & TV shows display characters or settings where a sexual fling to a pregnant woman occurs (Nip/Tuck, Junior, 1990s comedy Soul Man, etc.), any music band or a single about pregnancy fetishism? Include them on the article but direct me to the band or song. 63.3.14.2 11:58, 29 November 2006 (UTC)
I'm back...and found one hard rock band Kult of Lilith had a song full of references inwhat's possibly maiseiophilia..It's called "Hormonal binge" and describes a promiscuous co-ed single mom, after discovery of her pregnancy, began to flirt or sleep around more than before her "tis' kickin' kid was no accident, or she won't get her @$$ pregnant". This song contains foul language, shock words and graphic descriptions of sexual innuendo, and one line I can remember goes... "All the men shall come to her, the queen must bear, a bastard child to occur, for a rightful heir". + 63.3.14.1 09:23, 25 January 2007 (UTC)
you're all unbelievable. Darren shields, I believe its you are the editor of last year's deleted articles on maiseiophilia involve: "interests in baby showers, easter eggs, maternity underwear". You must add other known interests of maiseophiles include how difficult is for preggers to (maturely phrase this) use the restroom. they get serious skin irritation (pimples are never a sight to look at). but the fetishists boost on how pregnant women get "soft skin" like its sensual, again I never knew why the thrill other than touchin all over her.

Through my oldest son at age 16, I gotten the unfortunate chance to listen the cult of lilith's prego fetish song, and i thought that was terrible, hated the music and compared the miracle of birth a sexual favor arranged like a satanic ritual is over the line. I'm a lover of 1980s rock and pop music, never came across bands known to got edgy, or sang vulgar/obscene language, since i'm a Christian in practice of strong moral-ethical values. i admit my tolerant stance on homosexuals, mature adults viewing porn material, or couples have divorce when children are present.

I won't go onto these issues now, I focus on sexualization of motherhood and pregnancy in today's culture, and I knew thats not a trait associated in pedophilia. the maternal figure is universaly admired in a perspective of love and passion in every culture, some place women in a better social role by her natural ability to have a baby not a weakness or disease, both turn out false, made up by likely male sexists or puritan victorian age ideas. You see, for a pregnant fetishist to obsess over a "knocked up" woman is going to throw back the fear of women go out in public while pregnant again.

I believe new parents to be had done sexual time together before its out in open in the time of 'free love' 1960s/1970s, but something happened in the 1990s for pregnancy fetishs to break out open into the public once wont even say the "p word" or long ago, anyone dislike a husband who would kiss or snuggle with his wife 9 mos. pregnant is gone, like old laws and policies in hospitals (in America) kept out concerned fathers out of the delivery room. thank goodness most men take pride to view the birth of their child. - happily married & mom of 3.

[edit] Redundant article?

See Maiesiophilia. I don't know whether there is supposed to be any difference between what both articles cover, but right now that one seems to be mostly redundant. Merge anyone? –Ashmodai 22:02, 8 April 2006 (UTC)

  • The other article is more about describing that term. While this one is more about the "culture". Jack Cain 22:31, 8 April 2006 (UTC)
  • I'd agree that the Maieusiophilia article is mostly redundant. I'd approve of a merge.
  • Merge The Maieusiophilia article sounds encyclopedic. The Pregnancy fetishism sounds pervy and rambling.Ghosts&empties 20:54, 13 June 2006 (UTC)
  • There is of course the spelling debate with the 'Maieusiophilia'. The articles should definently be merged, personally I don't mind which title is used as long as pregnancy fetish, and all spellings of 'Maieusiophilia' redirect to the same place.
  • This article needs some revisions. It does definitely ramble on and has little basis in fact with almost no references. 02:20, 14 July 2006 (UTC)
  • Do Not Merge --Anchoress 11:12, 28 July 2006 (UTC)

[edit] Redirected Maiesiophilia here

I've made Maiesiophilia a redirect to this article, we don't have multiple articles on the same topic on wikipedia. I didn't bother merging the content, because it was entirely unsourced. Feel free to go check the history and grab it if you want it here. --Xyzzyplugh 16:37, 29 July 2006 (UTC)

[edit] what a good article

I'm a single mother of a baby boy, and good thing a new man came in my life during my pregnancy. He wasn't into a fetish, but we fell in love over time and he was telling me how sexually attractive a pregnant woman can be :-D too bad my ex-BF not only abandon me at a hard time, but not want to make love to me again. Not all fetishism is bad as long I as a person isn't taken for granted or treated as a body part, cuz pregnancy won't last forever. -Natalie

Well, nice to read your opinion, Natalie. In your case, he liked who you are inside but your situation of having a child is truly a feminine quality some men may enjoy her. But, the thing is what if he looked for a "MILF" or looked at your pregnancy like you're "easy" or "cheap", that would be offensive and unkind if some men are to pregnant women. I understood the increase of single mothers in western societies is the developed social acceptance of women have babies without a man, lost its' terrible stigma like it had 10 or 20 years ago. I guess more of us men aren't "turned off" or "scared away" by the sight of an interested or positively portrayed single (pregnant) mother. I think that's good and proves many men care and admire pregnant women (the "maternal figure", badge of honor to had a baby, remembered how their moms felt when she had him, etc.) I'm focused on a sexual fetishist community that talks about or desires mainly on the sex act, and comparisons to pregnancy as some bizarre, ugly or weird thing that's simply to arouse these men. I do like how a pregnant lady looks and to think how she got pregnant makes me blush... but it isn't all about sex, but sweet love with a man she loves that provided a baby. However, you Natalie seem to use pregnancy for an advantage (not for sex, but related to what a man likes about a pregnant lady) and glad to hear you're in a great relationship, good luck to you (Natalie), him and your baby son. + Mike D 26 07:26, 25 November 2006 (UTC)
A male's sexual interest in pregnant woman isn't an abnormal psychosexual disorder. I call it the "eye of the beholder" to mean all depends on the person's point of view and what he find attractive in a woman. It's impolite to flirt or ask out a woman in certain public settings or situations, no wonder the pregnant fetish community functions the best over the internet.

I went to the outside eden web page, the one on fan fiction and japanese manga drawings of pregnant women. The links to pregnancy fetish web sites are regularly taken down. The 'about the fetish' section wasn't an 'A+' term paper, but confusing and poorly sourced, I gave it a 'B-' 'nice try' award.

Nat, you told your side of the story, but don't give full detail of your personal sex life. Please discuss the changes of the article or the issue. The media's influence to make someone develop a sexual fetish isn't properly sourced, was deleted and restored and deleted again. And the "possible preg. fetish references" on TV and movies, only to a few took time to notice that.

And you don't have to read or view those web pages, not to mention wikipedia prohibits posts to web links with pornographic images (and be in mind, some of the readers are under age 18, the level age in most western countries, don't need to view sexually explicit material), keep it out (and clean). 63.3.14.2 11:51, 29 November 2006 (UTC)

Oh no...the internet is least safe place. You don't have "face-to-face" contact, the two people chating together can pretend who they are or hide their real identity, and "netiquette" made it hard to safely visit each other in person. Maiesiophiles and prego fetishists, let's face it...the chance of ever making out with a preggie is low and not always welcomed. Now one day on the internet (fetish web site forums), a "sexy preg lady" finds "hot4preg" and wants an one-on-one chat to introduce and talk about themselves...is it OK from a healthy but long distance? (she may be a 12-year old boy/girl or your 50-year old male friend pulling a cruel joke to pretend "this is she") How about that lady is for real, the guy in (i.e. Maine, Canada or Sweden) must travel to (i.e. Oregon, Mexico or Australia) for her before the baby's due date...or she's like "stay out...I'm not in a mood for sexual relations, a romance don't work well for a stay-at-home mom, and why can't we be friends cuz you're there for me"...emotionally?. I can't image if he can handle the sight of his lover in labor, giving birth or C-section, would he turn away or leave her alone in time of need...or gets aroused to a point he's thrown out of the delivery room? More things to think about, because on the internet don't get attached to anyone you can't see or hear to (and most preggies are reluctant to give out phone nos. or addresses) someone they don't know or unsure where he lives. —The preceding unsigned comment was added by 63.3.14.1 (talk) 09:53, 25 January 2007 (UTC).

[edit] External links

For more on pregnancy fetishism, here are the external links barred from the article...I don't find web links that actually discuss pregnancy fetishism, the pyschiatric causes of maiesiophilia, and the like as "pointless", "irrelevant", "unreliable", "inappropriate" and what ever. In the past 6 mos., Wikipedians declared they got this "academic" right to take down useful edits (for not reliant to wikipedia standards, I call it WP:OR that welcomes feedback and information sources to reinforce any dubious claims) and they opposed external links of web site intros of popular web sites (adults only! the adult age is 18 in the US and Canada, but please check the adult age in your country) all devoted to those in the maiesio/prego fetish community.

  • Impregnorium.net Impregnation and pregnancy erotica portal and community - ADULTS ONLY!!

[edit] Unrelated to pædophilia

Who conflates pregnant women with prepubescent children??

Also, I don’t remember the bus driver in “Rat Race” seeming turned on at all. —Wiki Wikardo 08:58, 17 November 2006 (UTC)

I don't believe pedophilia related to pregnancy fetishism, the issue is on the female body is pregnant and physiological changes occur while she bears a child inside the womb. It's totally acceptable in western countries (some couples, married or cohabiting, and if their religious-moral views permit it) to continue sexual relations with a pregnant spouse/partner, provided by the doctor/physician if the woman has no medical problems or not in "high risk" pregnancy. The only obstacle is sexual positions for her and him to feel comforting, or if he's aroused by how she looks (esp. her big belly, weight gain included). I think more and more people in western countries aren't thrilled or shocked if a healthy pregnant woman wants to have sex.63.3.14.2 12:08, 29 November 2006 (UTC)
Yeah...the controversial scene was deleted, because the themes on sexual arousal was unsuitable in some regional and small markets (in the USA). Was "rat race" rated R or PG-13? That scene couldn't fit in some R-rated films ("x-rated" soft porn). It could be "offensive" to some audiences and probably not in a PG 13-rated film. Most DVD releases of movies have deleted scenes or extra footage included (directors' cut, British/Canadian versions, special insiders' look, etc.) and the DVD version Rat Race may had the bus driver/pregnant passenger scene. I never saw the movie or DVD... what's the movie Nine months has to do with pregnancy fetishism? 63.3.14.2 12:08, 29 November 2006 (UTC)
Why is someone taking down external links on topics related to maiesiophilia and pregnancy fetishism? I want them back...they are useful liable and credited resources, for goodness sake, it talks about what the article is focused on. The web link below is from Wired News.com on web sites feature pictures of pregnant women (belly shots, part-nudes, childbirth close-ups) and the issues coming out of the chance of "pervert" men or women will stare at the pics, trade them to others in fetish clubs, and it made me question what are the limits of modesty, glorification (a byproduct of love-making or procreation inside a woman's body, vs. snapshots of women in pain/discomfort at labor and c-section scars/stitches?) and just plain weird sex to only disturb viewers or readers? It's important for privacy reasons and respect to the ladies, never just trade nude prego pics without prior consent or permission, chances are it'll end up back to the original source! And there are prego pic web sites ran or produced by pregnant women (or/and their husbands) admittedly into maiesiophilia, gravidaphilia, exhibitionism and "wife-sharing" stories within the pregnancy fetish community. Here's the web link below (but no prego pics...Ok?) :-D 63.3.14.1 07:38, 26 February 2007 (UTC)

Wired News: The naked truth of birth —The preceding unsigned comment was added by 63.3.14.1 (talk) 09:08, 25 January 2007 (UTC).

[edit] Unsourced

Please refer to the verification policy: The obligation to provide a reliable source lies with the editors wishing to include the material, not on those seeking to challenge and/or remove it. Please note that the emphasis is in the original. If there are reliable sources for any of the things that I've removed (and am about to re-remove) add them and there is no problem. - 152.91.9.144 02:25, 24 November 2006 (UTC)

If there are sources to be found, then they need to be added at the time the material is added as opposed to some vauge later date. Material without sources cannot be assured of being unbiased. I will continue to remove unsourced material per policy.
152.91.9.144 01:06, 25 November 2006 (UTC)
Leave it alone, please. I had to restore some of the deleted edits, you could had discussed it first on the talk page. I want to find real hard sources and the pregnancy fetish community might contributed to the entries. But, additions must conform to the wikipedia's strict criteria standards. I've left "citation needed" for two or 3 of them, they look authenatic and not entirely personal opinion, refer to point on view on what's considered that way.+ Mike D 26 07:03, 25 November 2006 (UTC)
Oh Ok...you're right. The clean up was needed, but the thing on "about the fetish" can't be totally inappropriate or broken wikipedia rules. I don't know any psychiatric magazine or web site can speak for the pregnancy fetishist mind either. What it's about is they are attracted or aroused by a woman, but while in her pregnancy, the belly is the center of interest. I'm not sure the media is responsible for generating a public consciousness in a sexual nature of a woman's body during pregnancy. I always thought it's up to her and the man she loves, but this is about an abnormal (or "unwanted") attraction by other men come up to her and try to sexually involve her. There's nothing morally wrong for a man to have a romantic feeling for a woman if she's pregnant (by another man, of course and she may left a bad marriage or not), but the focus on hidden pregnancy fetishism as a result of political correct attitudes to "feel pity" or try to "respect" women who gained weight. Now I find it an unsourced statement (or there wasn't verification) like the media can warp other people's minds on what's sexy about pregnancy, but nevertheless it's a beautiful thing to happen for any woman...and her lover involved in the procreation process. +Mike D 26 07:12, 25 November 2006 (UTC)
  • Leaving aside the value judgements applied in the above, the policy on verification does not require that material that may "look authenatic." [sic] It's dead easy: Find sources or the material must be removed. Here is a link to the version of the page that contains all the unsourced material, if someone wants to find sources for the statements contained therein and add the material in with reliable sources then do so. Barring that, I'm going to continue to remove material that is unsourced or biased.
    152.91.9.144 03:06, 27 November 2006 (UTC)
I know there was lots of pregnant fetish artwork based on popular animated toons on TV, movies, comics & video games. Fans drawn images of young adult females from Totally spies, teen titans, final fantasy, inuyasha, disney, scooby doo, tiny toons, street fighter, mortal kombat, south park & the simpsons are popular. The web sites have hundreds of images of female characters shown pregnant, story plots contain how they are involved in sexual/romantic affairs with male/female characters, stuff like that. I seen one Totally Spies sketch: alex, sam and clover learned they test positive, then find the 3 girls had a graduation orgy, and start to seek attractive bachelors for sex. I won't get into detail or on topics I shouldn't discuss, but fan fiction and prego fetish fantasies got rolled into one, an interest to wish that got on TV.63.3.14.2 12:20, 29 November 2006 (UTC)

[edit] You're into pregnant women? here are facts

Rem off-topic discussion to User talk:63.3.14.129/pregnant Anchoress 11:52, 25 January 2007 (UTC)

I apologize for my tirade, and it's treated an off-topic. I promise not to stray far again in wikipedia. The men in here into pregnancy fetish must understand what's pregnancy is like, then do a double-take in their obsession isn't all good. I got two sons and a daughter. Thank you on saving and storing the comments, perhaps a good idea to take it to the talk:pregnant area, or on second thought, it may stray to another area to make others discomforted and disgusted to perseverate on fetish topics in there. I find it ridiculous for pregnant fetishists gawk at belly shapes or the computer-enhanced photos deleted very natural and normal traits associated in a pregnant woman's belly: blue blotches, purple veins and a "linea negra". The prego nude/model photo effects managers "slim her down", made her belly "hang high", square-shape and further out, despite other women might have bellies "hang low" or not "stick out", show more on the buttocks, and they won't know if she's 5 mos., 7 mos. or rarely, over 40 weeks (9 mos): she should get bed rest and have an induced labor (more painful than regular or natural labor). Education is the key to beat the rising tide of eroticizing of pregnant women, and I been there myself. - married mom of 3 children.

[edit] WP:NPOV & WP:OR

I have just removed all of the seriously non-neutral and unsourced essay material from this article. It read like someone trying to introduce others to their obsession rather than an encyclopedic discussion of the subject matter. Huge portions were full of WP:WEASEL words and described the online community more than the actual fetish. There is plenty of psych and other examination of this fetish from a more analytical and less anecdotal perspective and the former is what the article needs to be based upon. ju66l3r 05:27, 6 January 2007 (UTC)

[edit] A mother's decision to show her belly

This just in: On Fox News tonight, a pregnant Chicago Bears fan (obviously, a woman) wants to have an advertising firm post a temporary tattoo on her 8-months pregnant abdomen and her husband is like "go right ahead...let you and our child be a subject of a super bowl ad!" I never understood why it's not a private matter for a majority of women to show their bellies to millions of other people, although I agree there's no shame in her situation of being pregnant...most woman (when or not pregnant) don't want strangers (men or women) to come up, touch their bodies (consent? in public? for thrills?) or ask intimate or personal questions on pregnancy. I'm not an "old school" etiquette expert, but it's up to her in decisions on celebrating pregnancy in ways unusual and fun...would sexuality and nude modeling pics of her pregnant self included in liberty of revealing more to people not in her direct social circle...family or friends? Exhibitionism in good taste and satirical self-esteem is positive for any pregnant woman to enjoy the moment in life, but seriously (to ladies...or/and men with lovers) would you allow it too? + 63.3.14.1 09:43, 25 January 2007 (UTC)
Retrieved from "http://en.wikipedia.org../../../p/r/e/Talk%7EPregnancy_fetishism_cf3f.html"