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Nadine Gordimer

Hi LQ, I just wanted to let you know I am out of town due to family emergency and not keeping up with what's happened on the Nadine Gordimer page! Will rejoin the conversation when possible.DianaW 15:22, 8 December 2006 (UTC)


3RR

Please stop making misrepresentations as you just did on my talk page, when you insunuated that I had broken the three-revert rule, when you knew very well that I hadn't. Stop obsessively undoing every edit I make on the Nadine Gordimer page. You need to discuss things, not just delete. And stop making personal threats that you are going to have me blocked from Wikipedia, simply because I do not share your politics. Personal threats have a way of boomeranging back at their originators. 70.23.199.239 00:21, 24 January 2007 (UTC)

I gave you a warning that you had hit 3Rs on the same page. I have discussed things ad nauseum on the Talk:Nadine Gordimer page as the edit history attests. I have never made personal threats of having you blocked; I've given you warnings only after you repeatedly violated WP:CIVIL and engaged in edit warring. --lquilter 00:31, 24 January 2007 (UTC)

Dealing with problem editors

I noticed that you posted this, then deleted it. It's a good question; I want to offer some thoughts.

I would also like outside commentary on & suggestions for my interactions with this editor. I am stressed by the ongoing inability to have a dialogue about the substance of issues, and keep getting sucked in by the pointless accusations the editor makes about other editors. I would prefer to disengage entirely, but what is my responsibility to deal with the issues? This is a community ...?

  • First, some editors simply don't respond to constructive comments. My standard is to give them one chance, then to basically ignore them. By basically ignore, I mean that once I've asked them to pleae follow (say) WP:CIVIL, it's not worth repeating.
  • Second, if a posting on a talk page is an egregious violation of WP:CIVIL or WP:NPA, it may be worth simply deleting the offending language and citing the policy violated, in the edit summary. I always also cite Wikipedia:Talk Page and WP:TPG, because those say what a talk page should be used for; if nothing else, incivlity and personal attacks violate those guidelines.
  • Third, you absolutely want to avoid going point-to-point with a disruptive editor when he/she attacks you or others; that just feeds the fire. Simply saying "I think the above comments are not in keeping with WP:AGF and I urge you and others to focus on discussing the article, per (cite talk page guidelines]] is a flat, factual statement. If an editor says "X is racist", don't argue that X is not; just say that the editor is off-topic and please observe (cite policy).
  • Fourth, at the risk of being redundant, you want to defend the process from getting bogged down in personalal/behavioral issues, if possible, not defend individual editors. Assume they have thick skins (something everyone should cultivate), and remember that this isn't the real world. Report blatant attacks (obscenities, shouting via caps, etc.) at WP:AN/I and otherwise restrict yourself to flat comments (above). If you are concerned about how other editors feel personally about attacks, put a note on their talk page saying that you think they're a constructive member of Wikipedia; that you're sorry that there are other editors who don't seem to want to work on improving the article; and that you hope they will continue to contribute and will largely ignore such attacks.

-- Hope that helps. If questions, just drop me a line. -- John Broughton | (♫♫) 00:06, 26 January 2007 (UTC)

Thanks John Broughton - this is helpful, especially the last point. --lquilter 00:14, 26 January 2007 (UTC)
You're welcome. (I added a couple of words that I mistakenly omitted on the first posting.) -- John Broughton (♫♫) 19:05, 26 January 2007 (UTC)

Nadine Gordimer / misleading edit summary

One of your recent edit summaries in the article Nadine Gordimer did not accurately describe your edit. Changes to the content of articles should be accurately described in the edit summary. --lquilter 13:42, 25 January 2007 (UTC) (content copied, by 70.23.199.239, from warning message Lquilter placed on User talk:70.23.199.239)

Nonsense. I simply used YOUR misleading edit summary, word for word. If you didn't like it, you shouldn't have used it, in the first place.

Statements placed on editors' talk pages should not mislead readers unaware of the political agenda motivating the statements. 70.23.199.239 08:37, 1 February 2007 (UTC)

The edit summary I used was "(Reverting recent assault info per discussion at talk page.)" The discussion at the talk page was overwhelmingly in favor of not including that information -- hence the use of the word "per". The use of the same edit summary to describe the opposite behavior is confusing; nobody would understand from looking at the talk page how the information was put back into the article "per" the talk page. Please see [1] which defines the usage as "in accordance with". (crossposted at User talk:70.23.199.239 --lquilter 14:25, 1 February 2007 (UTC)

"The use of the same edit summary to describe the opposite behavior is confusing; nobody would understand from looking at the talk page how the information was put back into the article "per" the talk page."

No. People who oppose the politically motivated censorship of essential information, and who take their irony supplements -- the kind who live in the spirit of the First Amendment -- will not find it at all confusing. 70.23.199.239 05:17, 2 February 2007 (UTC)

Material Yakuman deleted without archiving

Below material was on User talk:Yakuman [2] and removed ont 2007/3/16

"3RR" on Nadine Gordimer

Yakuman, in your edit summary on Nadine Gordimer article, you reversed a change I made, commenting "Reversion of 3RR violation" (diff). Could you please explain how you characterize my three quite different edits (diff1 (deleting paragraph), diff2 (adding dispute tag), diff3 (deleting one word but leaving sentence)) as a 3RR violation, but manage to avoid so describing your own 5 edits in the space of 36 hours (diff1, diff2 (restoring exact same content), diff3 (variant added), diff4 (restoring variant), diff5 (restoring variant))? --lquilter 21:24, 14 March 2007 (UTC)

If you look at the 3RR policy document, it doesn't make exceptions for the sort of distinctions you make. In the interest of AGF, I will not purse a block in this instance, though I may have to do so in the future. Thanks. Yakuman 21:30, 14 March 2007 (UTC)

No, by all means, please do go ahead and attempt to document a 3RR on me. I've given you the diffs, so it should be pretty easy. I would really like to see an administrator look at this history of edits and conclude that *I* am the one who has violated 3RR. (Even at its most basic level, I have to point out, 3RR is more than 3 edits in 24 hours ....) And you have yet to explain how your edits would not constitute even more of a "violation" of 3RR than mine ...? --lquilter 21:52, 14 March 2007 (UTC)

I'm trying to abide by WP:CIVIL and WP:AGF. Please don't abuse my acts of diplomacy. Please be civil and avoid personal attacks. While a block isn't due yet for this in my opinion, you're doing yourself harm by causing yourself to look uncivil in the eyes of others here, and your reputation on Wikipedia is far more important than your block history. If you have questions, please feel free to ask, but read the policy first. I have no the interest in an edit war, nor do I enjoy being drawn into debates like this. Take care, and have a good day! Yakuman 22:17, 14 March 2007 (UTC)

I'm happy to not engage in protracted discussions, but you have now several times implied or stated that I've violated 3RR, without substantiating your claims; for this to be a serious and constructive warning, then substantiation is needed. Regardless, administrative review is a good thing: Pressing personal matters have kept me from taking the Nadine Gordimer page to mediation, but that shouldn't stop you. (-8 --lquilter 23:07, 14 March 2007 (UTC)

As I said, I have no the interest in an edit war, nor do I enjoy being drawn into debates like this. Article talk pages are to discuss the content of articles. Don't waste time and talk page space spreading your campaign to every related talk page. Not only is this tiresome, it is a violation of Wikipedia policy. Please read Wikipedia:No personal attacks and Wikipedia:Civility. Yakuman 23:21, 14 March 2007 (UTC)


3RR Warning: Nadine Gordimer

Welcome to Wikipedia. We invite everyone to contribute constructively to our encyclopedia. Take a look at the welcome page if you would like to learn more about contributing. You are in danger of being blocked for violating WP:3RR. Please stop and consider improving rather than damaging the work of others. Thank you. Yakuman (数え役満) 14:38, 3 April 2007 (UTC)

As Yakuman well knows, she is removing a NPOV tag without resolving the dispute. That is not a WP:3RR matter. In fact the tag is there to avoid revert warring as Talk:Nadine Gordimer demonstrates. (Scanning Yakuman's talk page and history (because she deletes her talk page warnings and messages) shows that she has done this sort of inappropriate warning before.) --lquilter 14:44, 3 April 2007 (UTC)

More Yakuman deletes

Nadine Gordimer page / NPOV tag

Yakuman, I've responded to you on the Talk:Nadine Gordimer page. But just so you know: Simply combining two disputed versions does not eliminate the source of the dispute in this case, since the source of the dispute is the inclusion of race, which in my (and others') view is unnecessary and not neutral. So the NPOV-section tag still needs to be on that section until that dispute is cleared up. Please discuss on the talk page.

By the way, I see that you have cleared off your talk page without archiving it. User talk pages are not owned by users, but are places where the wikipedia community can see a record of conversations, responses, and warnings about the user. While it's not required for all comments, it's a good idea to archive your talk page, which means to copy the material to a subpage. This leaves it more easily accessible for other users and administrators (and yourself) without having to track through a sometimes confusing edit history. I note that we are supposed to archive any warnings and administrator messages rather than delete them. See Wikipedia:How to archive a talk page. --lquilter 13:57, 3 April 2007 (UTC)

Race is something you are born with. That's as neutral as it gets. In other words, it is a plain fact. Are people to believe that the woman was robbed by Hispanics? Asians? Swedes? You have no case to keep that tag alive. As far as talk pages go, I just had this discussion. See above. Yakuman (数え役満) 14:07, 3 April 2007 (UTC)

I'm cc:ing your response to the Nadine Gordimer talk page and responding there. --lquilter 14:11, 3 April 2007 (UTC)

If you started the discussion here, please carry it on here. Stop this campaign to revive a dead dispute. Do not include me in your disruptive war of words. Yakuman (数え役満) 14:13, 3 April 2007 (UTC)

April 6

diff

You currently appear to be engaged in an edit war according to the reverts you have made on Nadine Gordimer. Note that the three-revert rule prohibits making more than three reversions in a content dispute within a 24 hour period. Additionally, users who perform a large number of reversions in content disputes may be blocked for edit warring, even if they do not technically violate the three-revert rule. If you continue, you may be blocked from editing. Please do not repeatedly revert edits, but use the talk page to work towards wording and content which gains a consensus among editors. Thank you. -- tariqabjotu 01:34, 5 April 2007 (UTC)

I'm not actually edit warring. In fact, I made a compromise, but one party refuses to accept. Thank you for trying to ensure good faith. I have not violated 3RR however, nor I am making disruptive. If this canned template message was a prelude to sone sort of block or other sanction, I insist you to retract. Thanks, Yakuman (数え役満) 02:33, 5 April 2007 (UTC)

[rewritten as] I'm not actually edit warring. In fact, I made a compromise, but one party refuses to accept. Thank you for trying to ensure good faith. Yakuman (数え役満) 02:33, 5 April 2007 (UTC)

Let's try something new. Let's not comment or describe each other's good faith or lack thereof; numbers of revisions; possible sock-puppet or censorship; etc., etc. Instead, let's just respond to the substantive points that are raised. We have a substantive dispute, but let's try to work on that substantive dispute. Deal? --lquilter 04:24, 5 April 2007 (UTC)
Check out what I posted to your talk page. That may help. Yakuman (数え役満)

April 7

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Please quit edit-warring on Nadine Gordimer; take the matter to the talk page. Note that you have been reverting against a version that was accepted on the talk page by Andyparkerson (talk • contribs) and Lquilter (talk • contribs). I suggest you either respect (see Talk:Nadine_Gordimer#seeking_rapprochement). I suggest you either respect that position or you make a note of position on the page. Either way, edit-warring is not the answer. -- tariqabjotu 14:38, 7 April 2007 (UTC)


April 7a

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Nadine Gordimer

It is fair to say that the discussion on what to include (if anything) about the robbery of [Nadine Gordimer] has gone on for several months and has gotten us nowhere. Each side is still arguing its original points, and there seems to be no spirit of cooperation here, or willingness to compromise on key issues. Lquilter has repeatedly mentioned that mediation might be a good idea, and I must agree with her. Mediation is a voluntary process, and its results are non-binding. If both sides do not agree to the mediation, then it will not occur, for its results would then be meaningless. It is, however, the next step toward Arbitration, which is binding. The goal of mediation is to arrive at a solution that is acceptable to all parties. It is not to force one viewpoint on others. It is very important that all sides agree to this mediation. I am in the process of drafting the Request for Mediation. If you have a problem with mediation, or do not wish to participate, please speak up now at Talk:Nadine Gordimer#Mediation. Andyparkerson 23:52, 7 April 2007 (UTC)

No wikilawyering please, I'm English.

Mediation simply drags out a silly dispute longer. One problem is that Stix was chased off and has no say in any of this, so I get to do twice the work. I also don't see to have the inordinate amount of time to fight over one issue that LQ seems to have. You seem to basically agree with her on everything anyway, Andyparkerson.

If you think Wikipedia is supposed to be a bastion of sensitivity, see Crystal Gail Mangum, where the entire article raises more issues than our disputed paragraph. Good grief, its an African-American female rape accuser illustrated with a mugshot! If y'all want to dispute, go fight over that one.

The very fact that there's a dispute is evidence that there's political ramifications to the incident, which deserve coverage. Otherwise, the article is a banal hagiography anyway. We don't really need more wikilawyering over this. Let the readers read what I provided and let them make their own conclusions. Reply at Talk:Nadine Gordimer#Mediation. Yakuman (数え役満) 00:35, 8 April 2007 (UTC)

A request for mediation has been filed with the Mediation Committee that lists you as a party. The Mediation Committee requires that all parties listed in a mediation must be notified of the mediation. Please review the request at Wikipedia:Requests for mediation/Nadine Gordimer, and indicate whether you agree or refuse to mediate. If you are unfamiliar with mediation, please refer to Wikipedia:Mediation. There are only seven days for everyone to agree, so please check as soon as possible.

Decline mediation as there is nothing to mediate. WP:WL Yakuman (数え役満) 01:32, 8 April 2007 (UTC)
Okay; then stop messing around with the article. You don't want to mediate. You don't want to come to a compromise, even though Andyparkerson attempted to do that through his recent reversions. (No, this is not a compromise, but rather a re-wording of what you put). If you can't help but edit war on the article, move on. There are over 1.7 million other articles from which you can choose. I have no idea where you get the impression wiki-lawyering is occurring, because there's none to be found here. -- tariqabjotu 02:10, 8 April 2007 (UTC)

By the way, you're walking a thin line with your recent incivil comments on Talk:Nadine Gordimer. -- tariqabjotu 02:12, 8 April 2007 (UTC)

I don't think your interpretation is entirely fair. On the article's talk page, for example, I just said I would accept Andyparkerson's current edit. Yakuman (数え役満) 02:14, 8 April 2007 (UTC)
I read what you put on the talk page, which is why I said that this is not a compromise. Compare to this and this, which are. Alternatively, compare to your versions, which are 100% equal to each other. -- tariqabjotu 02:17, 8 April 2007 (UTC)
If you're going to advocate, please don't invoke admin powers while you do it. I was not uncivil and saying "you're walking a thin line" is both threat and personal attack. If you're going to bullly me, you will run the risk of losing admin privileges via arbitration or other procedure. I am determined to defend my reputation and integrity.Yakuman (数え役満) 02:22, 8 April 2007 (UTC)
The irony of that statement is killing me. I'm not advocating anything (except perhaps talking this out). Your incivility comes from implying that Andyparkerson is a yamnut and a sockpuppet (or at least a meatpuppet). -- tariqabjotu 02:29, 8 April 2007 (UTC)
I don't think your interpretation is entirely fair. I neither said nor intended any of those things. I copied a piece of a commentary, decribing the futility of deletion campaigns. In the original, this is an explanation for why people create *puppets. Do not insult me on my own talk page! You invoke admin status, so you're held to a higher standard.Yakuman (数え役満) 02:34, 8 April 2007 (UTC)

<- [indent removed] Surely you could see how it might sound like that. In fact, even after your explanation, it still sounds like that. Why did you post that to the talk page then? I'm not insulting you; I'm refuting your points. I have not invoked admin status at all; anyone can warn you for edit-warring and anyone can warn you for incivility. That I was the first to do both has nothing to do with being an admin. -- tariqabjotu 02:38, 8 April 2007 (UTC)

Well, I'm not walking a thin line, I'm not being uncivil, and I'm not about to violate 3RR. I'm not edit-warring; I'm trying to end a pre-existing dispute. Yakuman (数え役満) 03:10, 8 April 2007 (UTC)
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