Talk:Relationship breakup

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This article, in my judgement, is very poor. As such, it is in need to expert help. --StevenL 03:21, 27 June 2006 (UTC)

the link to The Psychology of Breaking Up is not usefull at all. it links to a page to buy an ebook.

joslloyd

== The Phases are not necessarily correct. These phases seem to be the ideal of the way seperations should work, rather than capturing the essence of the way these breakups actually occur. In a seperation there are natural processes which most people go through. Some are similar to the loss of a loved one as though through Death, including grief, fear, anxiety, depression, bargaining, hope, desperation, anticipation of real or imagined events, anger, resentment, guilt, embarrassment, feelings of low self worth, etc. These intense emotions can be simultenous and experienced by one or both of the partners. Most people know that the way we should do things, are often in conflict of the way that they are done, and especially so in any type of relationship. And the long lasting relationships recognize this, and learn ways of relating. Yet the ideal way of relating and the actual way of relating are often diametrically opposed from the actual circumstances. I do agree that this article needs much more in relation to how people deal with the levels of emotions, what they should do: and what they do in reality: Any relationship is a difficult task, and there is no one answer to solve these dilemnas.=

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The uncyclopedia article, named break up, is way better than this, and thats saying alot