Ramlah binte Abi-Sufyan
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Ramlah binte Abi-Sufyan, رملة بنت أبي سفيان, aka Umm Habiba, أم حبيبة, was the daughter of Abu Sufyan. She was born c. 595 and died in 662 or 666. She was the wife of Muhammad, the final prophet in Islam and therefore a Mother of the Believers.
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[edit] Early life
She was the daghter of Saffya binte abi al-A'as [citation needed] and Abu Sufyan ibn Harb, the leader of Quraish and the most powerful enemy of Muhammad for most of his life. The First Ummayad ruler, Muawiyah I was her brother.
She was also the aunt of Uthman; they were first cousins on mother's side and second cousins by her father's side [citation needed].
It is not uncomon to see sources claim she is the daughter of Hind binte Utbah and Abu Sufyan ibn Harb. It is not clear what this is the source of this [citation needed].
[edit] Muhammad's era (610-632)
[edit] Marriage with Ubayd-Allah ibn Jahsh
Her first husband, Ubayd-Allah ibn Jahsh [1] was among the first people to accept Islam. Ubayd-Allah ibn Jahsh was the brother of Zaynab bint Jahsh, whom Muhammad married at some point. Ramlah and Ubayd-Allah had a daughter: Habibah binte Ubayd-Allah.
[edit] Emigration to Abyssinia — 615
In order to avoid hostilities from Quraish, both emigrated to Abyssinia (Ethiopia), where she gave birth to her daughter, Habibah bint Ubayd-Allah[1].
Her husband, later, converted Christianity[1], his previous religion and the religion of the Abyssinians. He tried to persuade her to do the same, but she held on to Islam despite all sufferings, which as an exile she had to bear.
Her husband gave up the Muslim way of life, including abstaining from drinking, which led to their divorce. She decided to live alone after her husband turned back from Islam, and continued to live in Abyssinia with her daughter. Ubayd-Allah ibn Jahsh died sometime later[1].
[edit] Marriage to Muhammad
There are contradictory sources. One claim that when Muhammad came to know about what had happened to her, he got worried that she might turn back from her faith like her ex-husband. He decided to propose to her through the Negus, who sent Abraha, one of his maids, with Muhammad's proposal. Ramlah gladly accepted the proposal, and gave her silver bangles and rings as a gift to Abraha[1].
The marriage ceremony took place in Abyssinia even though Muhammad was not present. Khalid ibn Said was chosen by her as her legal guardian at the ceremony. The Negus read out the Khutba himself, and Khalid ibn Said made a speech in reply. On behalf of Muhammad, the Negus offered a dowry of four hundred Dinars to Khalid. A huge wedding feast was given on behalf of Muhammad after the ceremony. the Negus also sent musk and ambergris to the bride through Abraha [1]. Muhammad had given no other wife a dowry larger than this.
Another explains: Since her husband abandoned Islam for christianity, after her husband's death the Prophet sent to the Negus asking him to act as counsel and marry him to Umm Habiba. The Negus asked her for her hand and she accepted, he gave her 400 dinars as a dowry, when Abu Sufyan heard about the marriage he commented that: “This stallion will not be hit on the nose”, a phrase meaning that the husband is suitable for the bride (an unsuitable stallion trying to mate with a mare would be hit on the nose, hence the phrase) [2]
[edit] Return to Medina
Later, the Negus made arrangements to send Ramlah to Medina by boat. Shurahil ibn Hasana accompanied Ramlah in her journey [1]. She was able to return to Medina six years latter.
[edit] Life in Medina
According to some sources, she got married to the prophet Muhammad one year after the Hijra, though she didn't live with him until six years later when Muhammad was sixty years old and she was thirty-five. Other sources claim her marriage took place in 7 A.H., at an age of 30 years [3]. The marriage afforded protection to her, although a hope of any change in Abu Sufyan's attitude did not materialize.
On one occasion, Abu Sufyan visited Umm Habiba in her house. He went to sit on a chair, but Umm Habiba hastily removed the Prophet's blanket from that chair before Abu Sufyan could sit. Abu Sufyan criticized her for this, claiming that Islam had caused her to lose respect for her father. Umm Habiba replied that it was because she recognised the differing statuses of the Prophet and Abu Sufyan that she removed the blanket, implying that her father Abu Sufyan did not deserve to sit on the blanket of the Prophet of God, Muhammad[citation needed].
[edit] Abu Bakr's era (632 – 634)
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[edit] Umar's era (634-644)
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[edit] Uthman's era (644–656)
Uthman was Ramlah's counsin, and her death affected her [citation needed]. Muslims sources state that Muhammad ibn Abu Bakr was the one that ledd the insurgents that broke into Uthman house [4]. He is said to have seized Uthman by his beard, berated him, and slashed him on his forehead. Kanana ibn Bishr is said to have given the killing blow [5].
Muhammad ibn Abu Bakr was the brother of A'isha and the foster son of Ali.
[edit] Ali's era (656–661)
- "when Mu'awiya's sister Umme Habeeba received news about Muhammad ibn Abu Bakr's murder, she sent Ayesha a cooked goat suggesting that the reason for his killing was his murder of Uthman. When this happened Ayesha said "May God kill this daughter of fornicating woman. By Allah! I shall never eat this meat again". [6]
[edit] Muawiya's era (661–680)
She died in the year 662 or 666 (40 or 44 A.H)[7], during the Caliphate of her brother, Muawiyah ibn Abu Sufyan and was buried in the Jannat al-Baqi cemetery next to other wives of Muhammad[1].
[edit] Legacy
There are about sixty-five Hadith narrated by her in the Hadith literature. Muhammad al-Bukhari and Muslim b. al-Hajjaj agreed on two of them, and Muslim took two of them alone [1].
[edit] Sunni view
It is said that she was a courageous, virtuous, and charitable woman and that she was very attached to Muhammad.
[edit] Shi'a view
Shi'a respect her as a Mother of the Believers, but do not appreciate her gesture towards A'isha.
[edit] References
- ^ a b c d e f g h i Islam online
- ^ Page 317 , Al-Kammel phy al-Tarikh by Ibn al-Athir (Arabic).
- ^ [1]
- ^ "Nevertheless, he brought in those who killed Uthman!", Uthman became quite unpopular, and he was murdered by insurgents lead by the son of Abu Bakr, Muhammad ibn Abu Bakr, in 656 e.v
- ^ The Succession to Muhammad pp. 138–39
- ^ Tadkhira Khawass page 62 Chapter "Dhikr Khwaarij"
- ^ [2]
