Pagans In Recovery
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Pagans in Recovery (sometimes abbreviated as PIR) is the phrase which is frequently used to describe the collective efforts of Neopagans to achieve abstinence or the remission of compulsive/addictive behaviors through twelve-step programs such as Alcoholics Anonymous, Narcotics Anonymous, Overeaters Anonymous, Al-Anon/Alateen, etc. These efforts generally focus on modifying or adapting the twelve steps to accommodate the Pagan world-view as well as creating Pagan friendly twelve step meetings either as part of a pre-existing twelve-step program, or as independent entities.
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[edit] History and development
The term 'Pagans in Recovery' appears to have first been used in a Neopagan newsletter from Ohio prior to 1989 which was titled "Pagans in Recovery" [1]. Isaac Bonewits also used the term in an essay he wrote in 1996 [2].
[edit] Why separate from regular twelve step meetings?
Many Pagans are uncomfortable with traditional twelve step meetings because of the use of Christian prayers, the difficulty in finding supportive sponsors, the assumption that a person's Higher Power is male, etc. [3]. Some Pagans find the 12 steps themselves too reminiscent of Christian theology to be applicable to their belief systems [4]. On rare occasions, Pagans have been "ousted from A.A. meetings or shunned" when members of that A.A. group discovered that they were Pagans. [5]
It should also be noted that many twelve step programs, such as Narcotics Anonymous, have special interest groups, typically meetings specifically geared towards young people, men, women, gays and lesbians, etc. [6] Alcoholics Anonymous has also started meetings specifically for Native Americans which accommodate the Native American view of spirituality [7]. However, it is not uncommon for Pagans who are recovering alcoholics to start A.A. meetings specifically for Pagans [8] though these meetings may not be included in local meeting directories.
[edit] What is different about recovery programs for Pagans?
Many Pagans seem to prefer a mutually supportive, spiritually based twelve step approach to recovery [9] over non-spiritually based programs such as Secular Organizations for Sobriety, where one is expected to keep his or her spiritual beliefs separate from recovery [10], or Rational Recovery, which is not spiritually based and does not encourage members to seek support from others in recovery [11].
Generally speaking, Pagan twelve step meetings follow the same format as other twelve step meetings except that they use Pagan friendly readings (which have not been approved by the General Service Office of Alcoholics Anonymous or other twelve step organizations), and substitute Pagan friendly prayers for the Lord's Prayer and the Serenity Prayer [12]. For example, the Recovery Spiral: A Pagan Path to Healing by Cynthia Jane Collins [13] is sometimes used instead of or along with the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, and the Native American Great Spirit prayer may be substituted for the Lord's Prayer [14]
Some Pagan twelve step groups have reworked or reworded the twelve steps so as to make them more applicable to Pagans, especially in allowing for a Polytheistic and non-gendered view of divinity [15]. The members of Pagan twelve step groups are still expected to work the twelve steps as a means of spiritual growth, obtain a sponsor, make amends for harm they have caused, and to help others. [16] [17]
Some twelve step meetings for Pagans are eclectic, meaning that anyone from a twelve step recovery program, regardless of the nature of their addiction, may participate in the meeting. This is in sharp contrast to Alcoholics Anonymous' concept of "Singleness of Purpose" which holds that alcoholics should only work with other alcoholics. [18]
[edit] External links
- ADF (Neo-Druid organization) article
- Witchvox article on recovery
- one example of a Pagan reworking of the twelve steps
- essay on staying sober and pagan
- article on stepping through recovery
- pagan 12 step recovery group for overeating
- Wiccan 13 step path
- Unitarian Universalist article on "the God issue" in A.A.
- "Making a Sea Change: The Spiral Steps Support Groups". An article about the Spiral Steps Support Groups. It discusses how and why these meetings began and goes into detail about the ways in which they are different from traditional 12 Step meetings. It appears at The Witches' Voice
[edit] Dissenting viewpoints
[edit] Internet Forums and Mailing Lists
- Pagans in Recovery forum
- The Witches Grove recovery forum
- Pagan One Day at a Time forum for overeaters
- Pagan 12 Step Haven Yahoo! group
- Pagan Recovery Yahoo! group
- Sober Witches Yahoo! group
- Sober Pagans Worldwide Yahoo! group
- Sober Friends Yahoo! group
- The Pagan Institutes Pagan and Sober mailing list
- The Sober Pagan
- Spiral Steps On-line Support Group. This is a non-cross talk, anonymous, moderated cybermeeting. It is not for Pagans only, but the majority of its members are Pagans of some flavor. All those who respect earthwise ethics are welcome. Real world meetings also exist. See Spiral Steps homepage below.
[edit] Pagan recovery groups and organizations
- Pagan Sanctum Recovery
- Nine Step Pagans
- The Spiral Steps
- Pagans for Sobriety
- Pagan 12 step program in Washington D.C.
- Minnesota pAAgans
- 13 Luna Steps to recovery in Ft. Lauderdale, FL
- Pagan ODAT group for overeaters
[edit] Newsletters
Pagans in Recovery Newsletter, c/o Bekki 6500 S.R. 356 , New Marshfield OH 45766 (cost is $8/year)