Denial, Anger, Acceptance
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| Episode no. | Season 1 Episode 3 |
| Guest star(s) | see below |
| Writer(s) | Mark Saraceni |
| Director | Nick Gomez |
| Production no. | 103 |
| Original airdate | January 24, 1999 |
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"Denial, Anger, Acceptance" is the 3rd episode of the HBO original series, The Sopranos. It was the 3rd episode for the show's first season. The episode was written by Mark Saraceni and was directed by Nick Gomez. It originally aired on January 24, 1999.
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[edit] Guest starring roles
- Michael Rispoli as Jackie Aprile, Sr.
- Anthony DeSando as Brendan Filone
- Jerry Adler as Hesh Rabkin
- Sharon Angela as Rosalie Aprile
- Michelle de Cesare as Hunter Scangarelo
- Oksana Lada as Irina Peltsin
- Drea de Matteo as Adriana La Cerva
- Al Sapienza as Mikey Palmice
[edit] Episode recap
Christopher and Brendan Filone return the stolen truck to Comley Trucking, but Junior is not satisfied. Junior and Mikey discuss their options for dealing with the two guys and Tony, and Junior begins to agree with Mikey through his frustration.
Silvio approaches Tony on behalf of a Hasidic hotel owner - Shlomo Teitlemann. The man agrees to turn over 25 percent of his business to Tony if he is able to force the man’s son-in-law into agreeing to a divorce with no compensation. This is because the son-in-law wants 50 percent and the government has put an end to the "self-policing" Hasidics previously available to the hotel owner. Paulie and Silvio accost Ariel, the son-in-law, but are unable to convince him to walk away from the marriage and the hotel with nothing. During a second encounter, they seek help from Tony. Ariel challenges the men to kill him, believing his death with bring spiritual harm to the hotel owner’s family. He references the Masada, site of a long siege between a small number of Jew and legions of Roman soldiers that ended in the mass suicide of the Jews who chose death over enslavement. Paulie and Silvio can't crack him so they call Tony away from time with his Goomar Irina to help them. After taking Hesh’s suggestion that the threat of castration is worse than death, Tony is able to get Ariel to agree to the divorce. Shlomo then refuses to give Tony his share, instead offering cash, because he believes he had more part in negotiating the solution. When Tony insists on the original 25% arrangement Shlomo says he has created a golem; when Tony asks what that means, he calls him a Frankenstein.
In therapy Tony discusses acting boss Jackie's cancer diagnosis. Dr Melfi tries to use it as an example to show Tony he is trapped in negative thinking. Tony becomes angry and storms out because he feels psychiatrists try to manipulate people into feeling certain things. The crew visit Jackie in hospital where he is being cared for by his wife Rosalie. Tony later returns with a dancer from the Bada Bing to give jackie a private party. On a third visit Jackie's condition seems to have worsened and he is too preoccupied with his illness to talk business. Tony discusses Jackie's downturn and the insult from Shlomo with Dr. Melfi. She asks him if he feels like a monster, i.e. lacking in feelings.
Carmela organises a silent auction at the Soprano home to raise money for a paediatric hospital. She recruits Charmaine and Artie Bucco to cater the event while visiting their new home. Tony and Artie have a good natured food fight after Tony tells Artie to stop whining about the fire in his restaurant. Carmela offends Charmaine by treating her like a servant. Later, Charmaine reveals that she and Tony once slept together to avenge the insult.
Meadow and Hunter are exhausted. The SATs and their choir recital fall on the same day, and they don’t have enough time to practice and study. They decide the best solution is to get some speed from Christopher and Brendan. Christopher rationalizes that it’s better they get it from him than from street dealers on Jefferson Avenue and agrees to give it to Meadow “just this once“.
Junior visits Livia at Green Grove and discusses the Christopher and Brendan situation. Livia points out that both she and Tony love Christopher like a son (her affection earned one year when Christopher put up her storm windows). She suggests Junior give Tony’s hot-tempered nephew a “talking to”, but says that she "doesn't know" about Brendan. Junior compliments Livia on her wise decision-making. She scoffs, sarcastically remarking that she must be "a babbling idiot" for Tony to put her in a nursing home.
The “talking to” given to Christopher manifests into a mock execution at the hands of Russian goons. Brendan's punishment is a bullet through the eye via the gun of Junior's trigger man, Mikey Palmice. Both scenes are inter-cut with Meadow’s recital, allowing her choir’s version of the lullaby All Through the Night to decorate the violence.
[edit] First Appearances
- Rosalie Aprile: wife of acting boss Jackie Aprile and friend of Carmela Soprano.
[edit] Deceased
- Brendan Filone: Shot in the eye while in his bathtub by Mikey Palmice.
[edit] Title reference
- Denial, anger and acceptance are three of the Five Stages of Grief described by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross in her 1969 book On Death and Dying and thoroughly discussed by Sigmund Freud.
[edit] Miscellanea
- The juxtaposition of the beautiful singing of Meadow’s choir and the killing of Brendan is similar to the baptism sequence in The Godfather when Michael has his enemies killed during the christening of his sister's child. Big Pussy makes the connection in the following episode when he says that Brendan's killing was a “Moe Greene Special”, referring to the way both men were shot in the eye.
- With Tony as a co-owner, the Teitlemann hotel is seen many times throughout the series. A suite is used to host poker games, prostitutes use the rooms to service their clients, and Murmur collects credit card information from the front desk.
- Chris tells Meadow he will sell her drugs to keep her from going to street dealers because they would rob her and leave her on the side of the road. This is exactly what happens to Chris while out trying to buy drugs in season four.
- The closing song in this episode is "Complicated Shadows" by Elvis Costello.
